"It is time to stop trying to correlate being an IC to a having a job. You don't have a job, you are running a small business and should be damn proud of it."
I totally agree!!! Mystery shopping has been FAR more demanding than any regular job I've had, and people who are slackers in any way, shape, or form do not succeed in it! I have a few friends who will pick up a shop or two here and there, but they do not do it as a living because they can barely handle the responsibility of going home and doing a 10 minute report. I had a "friend" (which is a term I use loosely thanks to this) who I told about a decent route of shops that I did almost every month. She had some other part time job she was doing, so I didn't think she would be a threat. Well she rode along in the car while I did this route just to keep me company. Then the next month, she applied for the route and undercut me on the pay. Oh I was so livid and I gave her a piece of my mind for doing that, but stayed mum with the scheduler, other than to request that I please be considered for at least 1 route that month. Well the scheduler was calling me almost last minute because "friend" had flaked out on about half of her shops. I asked the "friend" what happened because she called me asking if I would do the shops for her, and she said she just took on too many and could not remember all the details and couldn't handle putting in all of the reports. I don't think she has picked up more than a shop or two here and there since. I know that particular company kept rejecting her applications after that incident.
Now with LinkedIn, I did do a profile and didn't word myself as a Mystery Shopper, but I still put something like "Performance Evaluator." Currently, I'm not doing any shops that require scheduling a visit and using my real name (I hate doing apartments for the most part). I do feel that I need to have some way of listing my experience with this so that companies do not think that I have just been slacking off for 6 years. And yes, SAHM does mean stay at home mom. My ex made decent money but we are divorced now so obviously my financial situation is different. Obviously if I could turn back the hands of time, I would have stayed a career person, but at the time I thought I was making the best choice to stay at home with my babies. Due to transportation and school issues, now I'm forced to kind of stick around my home base a lot more, so no big long routes of high dollar shops. The town I live in doesn't offer much for shops so it isn't feasible to expect a full time income doing shops here. I'll still continue to pick up everything I can, but I do want to be considered for a regular job as well.