You guys are the only ones to ask (awkward)

If you're looking at her, she's probably looking at you. It tends to work that way. Perhaps she's nervous, too. It may take more than one trip by the station to get to the point you are comfortable together. It would be better to get comfortable before asking about a date of any kind. Friendship is based on proximity. Comfort is based on familiarity. It seems this woman really interests you, so move carefully. Best of luck.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.

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holliscary Wrote:
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> To be clear my concern is that my report was very
> positive. While the pictures back up my report I'm
> concerned that a case can be made that the report
> was more positive because of my interest in this
> woman.
>
> Regardless, I have business in that area on
> Saturday. I'm going to stop in to say hello and
> see how that goes. Play it by ear (let the
> appendage jokes commence).
>
> This could be the first woman I ask out since I
> divorced. I'm more nervous than my first
> assignment. I swear that I was a stud when I was
> younger...wonder where the confidence went....
>
> I appreciate the support and will let you know how
> it goes (at least generally).

I like that you are worried about appearing biased in your report. I have a picture on my head of drool oozing into the corner of your pictures. Or maybe a little camera shake?

lol... I love "a smile that rolled my socks up and down!" cracked me up! I met my handsome guy 12 years ago and have been rolling his socks/ doing his laundry ever since!!!

Hmmm... I guess I need to start using socks.

C

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"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind..." - Henry Ford

I'm really looking forward to hearing the update on how things go. Who knew that the MS boards would allow for romantic discussions? Maybe you should do one of those psychic reading shops to see if they have any foresight into the situation.

holliscary Wrote:
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> This could be the first woman I ask out since I
> divorced. I'm more nervous than my first
> assignment. I swear that I was a stud when I was
> younger...wonder where the confidence went....

Maybe your ex-wife got it in the divorce. ;-)

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“I'm the one that's got to die when it's time for me to die, so let me live my life the way I want to.”
~ Jimi Hendrix

“The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” ~ Mark Twain

“To the well-organized mind, death is but the next great adventure.” ~ J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone

Seriously, take a chance. We are given opportunities in life that do not always repeat themselves. At the very worst, you will need a new pair of socks!

Go ahead and ask her. You have a private life and this is part of it. The fact that you're a mystery shopper does not all prevent that private life.

And let us know what happened. LOL

I am living vicarioualy through you until Saturday. I want my socks to roll down.

If you begin a relationship with her, remember not to audit her store, anymore. The walls have ears in this joint.

57carol Wrote:
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> Yes, I am joining the gang who say go for it! But
> only if you fill us in on the details.

Well, if it goes well, not ALL the details! I think that's for another website.....

holliscary Wrote:
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> Regardless, I have business in that area on
> Saturday. I'm going to stop in to say hello and
> see how that goes.

Yea! It's Saturday! Good luck!

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I'm "Sandi" in the Middle!

I scrolled to the bottom of this thread to see if you had replied yet! It's Sunday - was she working?? How did it go?

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Always take the high road.

She wasn't in. Maybe that's an omen. If I'm in the area again I'll check again.

It's not an omen. Find out when she works. Go back. Try again.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.

Don't give up! This is the most interesting story on the forum.

You never know when it might happen...I remember once, a long, long time ago, I bought a pair of shoes and noticed that I didn't get a receipt (not a shop). I had paid in cash and the more and more I thought about it, the more it seemed like the sales lady had taken my money and not put it in the register. I went into the store and talked to the manager. He called me several times to get "more information" and after about four phone calls, I realized that he was calling for another reason. Finally he asked me out. We went out several times. He was a great guy and really good looking. But he ended up back with an old girlfriend (who I ended up working with - not knowing it was her, but that's a WHOLE other story).

Anyways...GO FOR IT!!!!

waiting...a real life soap opera! whoo hoo!

Keep trying

Oh man...I really would like to know how this story continues

. I'm taking this topic back to the first page hehehe

...

C

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"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind..." - Henry Ford

holliscary, it's officially beyond two weeks now, since the incident with your socks. Please, tell those of us, who have no other life, if you've simply been too busy with Ms. Wonderful and Beautiful to post or if the tramp kicked you to the curb.

(heart)

I intend to live forever. So far, so good.

holliscary, when you originally started this thread and said, "I don't need advise on the personal side, I'm wondering how it affects my standing with with the MSC?", did you really think that the romantics among us leave that stone unturned?

On a professional level, I would not visit that location again until you cool down.

Oh no! It's now officially spring. Have you washed those socks yet, OP? What happened?

Would love an update!

cease

We're all waittttiiiinnnngggggg.....

I heard they got married last weekend. You'd think he'd have invited us.

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Seriously, nobody cares that you're offended.

Yes the wedding was lovely and everyone had their socks rolled down - so cute.

holliscary:

My thought is to go for it! Who cares what the MSC thinks. Just make sure her husband is out of town.

My idea of an agreeable person is a person who agrees with me.
Benjamin Disraeli

Holliscary you are such a marked man. I cannot read any post by you without thinking about socks.

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