@nli07 wrote:
I am just disappointed that both times my reports were less than favourable for the server.
So I am making the following conclusion:
1. If the report is good, much less chance of being "identified"
2. If the report is bad, you have a HIGH chance of being "identified"
Please discuss.
I've been shopping since 2008 and my favorite shops are fine dining. I've completed thousands of shops. Here's another way to look at it. We are rating the performance of the server, the manager, and the restaurant. Our performance reviews may lead to internal performance reviews by management that limit their bonuses, raises, and even their ability to stay employed.
Think about how we feel when we get our grades on reports (or, how we feel when our boss at our day job reviews our performance). If I get a 10, it's done. I have no questions and I feel good. Happy dance. If I get less than a 10, I want to understand. I want good feedback. I want examples. I want justification. I want to know what I did wrong (prove it to me!) I want a play-by-play report of WHY I got less than a 10.
This is what the client wants. If the server is "not friendly," it's not good enough to say NOT FRIENDLY. In fact, I don't even say the server was not friendly. I describe exactly what he did as though there was nothing wrong with the behavior. I let the client determine whether the server was friendly or not and whether he met their standards or not. If the service is "slow," I don't call it slow. I describe the speed, backing it up with service times. If a server is dressed in an unprofessional manner, I do not say that. I describe, in great detail, exactly what he was wearing. It's up to the client to determine whether his manner of dress is acceptable to them or not. I may approve or not approve of facial tattoos, nose rings, 15 earrings, but it doesn't really matter what my personal preferences are. I report exactly what I see, and the client can determine whether this is good or bad according to their corporate standards. I never say "bad" or "unprofessional" or anything that would appear that I am making a value judgement. I report what I see and they determine whether it is good or bad. When I am reporting something I know does not meet the requirement, I try to report things that did meet the requirements at the same time. For example: "Although Mary did not bring a dessert menu or offer dessert, she smiled and made eye contact as she asked if I needed anything more." "Although John did not bring a comment card with the check, he very quickly processed my payment and thanked me warmly." I am very careful to describe, describe, describe and to draw no conclusions.
Because I present FACTS and I leave evaluation of the facts in the client's hands, I could say I never give a "bad" report, although I have actually given many. One was bad enough that the server and the restaurant manager were both fired. My report was not even questioned and I was paid. In that case, the restaurant was dirty and disorganized, the manager rude and aggressive, and the server lazy and dishonest. But I didn't say so. I described what happened. The client (management) made the determination. Because I reported only facts, including accurate timings, with no value judgements, there was nothing to argue with.
I have NEVER had a negative report denied. I have always been paid (and graded) exactly the same for negative reports as for positive. Having done thousands of reports, I truly think they want to hear the truth. I don't think they want to hear my opinions or prejudices.
[[disclaimer: There are a couple of well-known clients - pizza comes to mind - who kill the messenger. Avoid, avoid, avoid those shops. But they are NOT fine dining, they are places that don't really care. Most fine dining actually want to improve performance. ]]]]