Personally, I will morph into the consumer FROM HELL, and set them up for some form of verbal attack.
Years ago and friend and I had taken a collection to buy another friend a patio set for a housewarming. We went to Fortunoff, dressed like bums and WERE IGNORED, for very close to an hour. After I became bored, just sitting at the set that we had decided upon, "I" approached a salesperson, and asked if they were paid commissions.
I was told yes.
WELL, ...
... From there, I very snottily asked this person, if there had been a GOOD reason why I had been ignored for close to an hour, and since part of their income was contingent upon making a sale didn't they really think it might be wiser to move their a$$, and hustle, because I had become tired of waiting to be served.
IF you are being treated badly, it's partly because you put up with it. Your money is just as green as anybody else's and each dollar has the exact same value regardless of whose pocket it comes from.
I do try to dress well when I shop for real, because it IS reality and you will be treated better.
But occasionally, I will still dress like a bum and go into high end stores, to see how the staff performs. Heaven help them if I'm treated badly. It's a mental exercise, and a bit of a personal challenge to see what I can accomplish.
You have to stand up FOR YOURSELF!
I have gotten allies on multiple occasions from other customers, when I reach the "EXCUSE ,ME. I WAS HERE FIRST."
AND in some of the highest end stores. One of the best was when I had gone shopping after work, when I was in my 20's, still in my waitress uniform. It was our local "well to do town", and a very high end store. I thoroughly enjoyed telling the salesperson, that I couldn't quite understand her attitude towards me since I was reasonably sure that I made a lot more money than she did. This salesperson wound up being chastised by the other customers, too.
Instead of feeling bad about being ignored, start demanding better treatment. You'd be amazed how quickly a worker will start jumping through hoops if there's the slightest hint of a scene developing, ESPECIALLY when it was THEIR poor work habits, responsible for creating the situation.
When YOU refuse to be ignored, workers will pick up on the shift in YOUR attitude and bearing, and how you are treated will take care of itself.
A little dose of "their own medicine" can be a very powerful teaching aid.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/18/2015 08:26AM by Watching the Wheels.