I disliked my first Senior Living shop, because it required so much preparation, and I knew it would run at leas 1 1/2 hours. I did it for the money. Now I actually prefer them over regular apartment shops and new home shops.
1. They pay better
2. There are less requirements to overlook, such as asking fair housing questions.
3. There are virtually no surprises in them (like there are in new home shops) that require you to be alert and resourcefully think on your feet to dodge curve balls.
4. You will know your target and have a good idea of what to expect on site, after having listened to him/her talk to you on the phone for 10 minutes.
5. You will have an appointment with your target, so that you don't have to deal with your target being out on tour with someone else or deal with real clients interrupting your shop and forcing you to make an excuse to abort the shop and come back another day.
6 These shops flow more naturally and are easier than apartment or new home shops, even though they take longer sometimes.
7. Did I mention they pay better?
The best tip I can give you is keep it as real as possible and be prepared. More than any shop you have probably done, you will have to study and rehearse your part. Surely you have had a relative who could fit a similar scenario to the client requirement. If not, you will need to use your imagine to create such a scenario.
Even if you are only 30, you could act as though you are the responsible relative. Your birth mother died when you were very young, and you do not really remember her. You were adopted by your stepmother when she was 40. While you are conducting your shop, use an older relative such as a grandmother or great-grandmother in your mind. Picture her in your mind whenever the target asks you questions about your 79 year old mother. The target will ask you questions about your mother, so be ready and keep it as close to your real life as possible. The target asks what kinds of activities your mother enjoys. You think of what activities your great grandmother liked. What kinds of medications does your mother take? You think of what ailments your great grandmother had. You are an actor; immerse yourself in your role.
I would only do senior living shops as video shops. I would expect $80 - $100, but $70 would be a maybe. It depends on the shopper. I did one written senior living shop, and the narrative was just too time consuming for the pay.
Expect your target to ask these questions. Know the answers now so you will be ready tomorrow. You have only one shot to get it right once you are on site.
What is your mother's name?
How old is she (probably already stated on phone call)?
Does she need assistance getting around?
What medications does she take? She may even ask who her doctor is.
What is her living situation? Where does she live? Do you live close?
Have you discussed this with her? How does she feel about moving to AL?
What are her finances? How will she pay for AL? Does she have insurance?
Who is the decision maker? Does she drive?
Does she have memory problems?
What is the move in time frame? When will you make a decision?
What are her hobbies? Does she have close friends?
Do you have siblings? How often do they visit your mother? How often do you visit her?
Immerse yourself in your role to the point that is feels like you really are looking for AL for your mother when you are with the target, and you will have a great shop. Don't be afraid to let your emotions come out as they would if you really were shopping for AL for your loved one. AL agents are empathetic and not so focused on making the sale the way many apartment agents are. I hope these tips have helped you. Good luck on your shop tomorrow. Immerse yourself in your role and enjoy.