Yes, I'm glad I have this. It's perfect for me. I'm not as happy as I was earlier on as I've had a recent disappointing experience with my main company but I'll live over it. I have to quote a dear old friend, "It'll be all right. It'll never be the same, but it'll be all right." Absolutely.
This job has allowed me to stay in my home alone (my preference) without sharing it during my last years without downsizing and to maintain it in tip top shape without going into my modest savings. Knowing that if I want something that's XXXhundred dollars it won't be a problem because I can book the work and go get it is priceless to me. I don't have to hold down a steady job to have a steady income anytime I want it. I haven't touched a nickel of my savings and I don't expect I ever will until I have final care expenses.
I've never had work that didn't come with heartburn so I can handle this minor snafu. This is great because it's the first job I've had that allows me to quit and go back when I get ready. I'm sure that now that I've had the corners knocked off my amiability I won't be working with exactly the same set of personal guidelines. I'm sure you all understand exactly what I mean, and in case you're a new shopper it won't be long before you'll understand.
I believe it's probably at the point we realize how truly independent we are in this that we can appreciate it the most. It's so totally great, so personally satisfying, to be able to say, "No, thanks, I don't believe I want to do that particular job now at any price, at any time. No, I guess not. But hey, I know it's not you. Thanks anyway."
Those of you who are doing this temporarily might want to consider keeping this on the back burner on a permanent basis, at least as we understand this work now. We never know what tomorrow's changes may bring and this may become completely unattractive to many of us as time goes by. Or maybe not. Let me assure you that retirement for the average person is not the heavenly experience you may be expecting.
You'll have more than you can do to maintain yourself but none of those duties are interesting, challenging, or entertaining. I believe it was Lily Tomlin who said something like "Life is not just one thing after another. It's the same damn thing over and over." Or some such thought. You get the idea. It's even more crushing to keep up if there are financial issues. There's no such thing as certainty. It's always good to have something cooking on the side you can dish up when needed.
Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.