There is a saying I'm sure you're heard. Give a man a fish, feed him for a day, teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime. I think you are getting the wrong impression of both what this board is about and what we are trying to tell you. I'm going to point you in some directions.
I am a full time mystery shopper and I make a decent living. I could make about the same with an 8-5 M-F job and work less hours but I like this and it gives me flexibility. Plus I don't have to work for "the man." I say that to give you background for what I'm about to tell you.
If you were a painter, and there was a message board for painting, would you pop onto that message board and ask the other painters how to do their job and where to apply for painter jobs? No. That would be rude. If you went on a painter board and asked many of the similar questions you would get crickets, or worse. You have come on here and asked questions. In each instance a friendly (and from what I can tell mostly successful full time shoppers) have been nice enough to point you to where the answers to your questions are. Instead of reading the material that has been pointed out to you, you have said you're not going to ask anymore questions and complained that no one is answering your questions and instead tell you to go look somewhere else.
So, here's some free advice. Read everything in the new mystery shopping area, especially the sticky threads. For one, the questions you are asking show that you don't even know enough about mystery shopping yet to ask the intelligent questions. Once you have read all of that, feel free to ask questions, heck, continue to ask questions, just be thankful when someone points you in the direction of the answer instead of getting pissy they didn't just give it to you. I started just under 3 years ago and I read and read and read for at least two weeks before I even made a post. I received a ton of help, from many of the same people who have replied to you.
After you have done reading, or while you're reading, sign up for every company you can find either from this list or elsewhere. Yes it takes time. I, 3 years later, STILL find companies I need to sign up with. It is an investment in my business. I realize it will take time. And sometimes you think you are signing up with a company that has nothing and then you find out they have a world of projects they just don't advertise. So maybe it's not a waste.
There are reasons that a body stays in motion
At the moment only demons come to mind