Linda, the guidelines say that you are just doing an inquiry. When I followed the guidelines, it was impossible to meet with an MLO in person. They wanted to provide the inquiry information over the phone, and have me email my documents. After they received my documents, then we would meet.
Needless to say, there was no meeting. I do not use my SS# for shops.
"I told myself to quit you; but I don't listen to drunks." -Chris Stapleton