I laughed about the welcome too, 1100 posts later
As to your question, there is one shop in particular where the report expectations are way too much and after many 10s the editors have started being even pickier than ever. Rather than say never again, it will take a much higher fee to justify the BS. I have done the shop once since making that decision and it was or 4X the base rate.
Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.