I'm new to these forums and I'm a little surprised to see people have this nearly god-like adoration of--or blind loyalty to--their schedulers. Thus I thought your last sentence was pretty key.
OP's scheduler sounds completely over-zealous. And yes, that sounds absolutely creepy/stalkerish. If I were that woman, I would be pretty creeped out and on my toes.
I understand we have a desire to please the boss but when you find yourself asking "Am I being creepy?" then you probably are. As the shopper, I personally would have (politely) quit a long time ago or else found a way around the project manager's bizarre and unorthodox instructions.
Ultimately, people need to remember it's OK to say you're not comfortable with doing something. And remember that it's easy for the scheduler to ask you to be creepy when they're not the one that has to do it.
@catgrannyof5 wrote:
I attempted to do a targeted fitness facility shop. I was supposed to reach a targeted membership representative. I never reached the target because my call was transferred to an available membership associate. The guidelines instructed me not to ask for the target by name or to leave a message. After I made the appointment to visit their facility with the non target, I emailed the scheduler. Scheduler instructed me to cancel appointment with the non-target, try to get phone call to be transferred to target, if non target answers call, hang up or mention that I dialed wrong number. Was told to do that until I reach target. I can ask for target by name after so many attempts. I emailed scheduler and replied that I was not comfortable doing that.