Why I feel ungrateful.

I am the first to complain about the cold, shoveling the **** snow, having to wear layers and layers of clothes. I was trying to figure out a way of not going to work on Monday because of the cold. I was out buying up the grocery store for the deep freeze that is coming when I saw a street person. Wow, talk about a reality check for me! I can come home and turn up the thermostat, I have a home. I can turn up the heat and wear less layers, if I wasn't so cheap. I can stock up on groceries and non essential goodies, I have the money to buy them and someplace to store them. It made me feel really sad and stupid that I'm trying to dodge going to work, I at least have a job. I think I needed that perspective of my life to wakeup and smell the roses, instead of looking for the manure.

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I believe you are where you are supposed to be, when you are supposed to be. I have always told my children that when they were disappointed about something. They are grown, and still live by that saying. Cindy55, I believe that is where you were supposed to be!

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Sometimes it's good to have a wake-up call. It's so easy to focus on the rough spots in our own lives to the point of forgetting about those less fortunate. My sister and I used to roll our eyes at my dad when he'd point out that there were lots of people in the world who had it harder than we did. Now I find myself saying that to my own kids--I've become my dad!

I used to volunteer with our church group to go the the area churches that gave out meals to the poor and homeless, and serve meals. Nothing like that to give one an attitude adjustment. And to change one's perspective on those living in severe poverty. Although mine was always pretty compassionate to begin with, I had very little clue.... Anyway, the phrase "There but for the grace of God go I" is true--and I try to remember that when money's tight or business is slow.

I learn something new every day, but not everyday!
I've learned to never trust spell-check or my phone's auto-fill feature.
Today I got an "All Call" from our garbage service letting us know that due to the weather they will be delayed a day. I didn't even remember they were out there in this -35. I also have been reminded to be thankful for the pooper sucker guys. They were at my neighbor's house all day today in the wind, snow, and brutal cold cleaning out the septic tank, running an auger, and doing inspections. I felt bad for them too. Very cold for that job too.
I think I would feel at least a tad sorry for pooper sucker guys any day of the year. Extreme heat wouldn't be good for them, either.

Practitioner of the Nerdly Arts.
Cindy, I had that moment a couple of years ago. Complaining about my "bad day", I don't even remember why. My best friend who is a single mother found out she had breast cancer that day. That kind of stuff isn't supposed to happen to you or anyone you know. Wow, we have been through a lot the last couple of years and I'm glad to report she is currently cancer free!

That moment when you realize that getting a speeding ticket or standing in line at Wal-Mart for 30 minutes isn't the biggest thing in the world. Priceless.
Bearclaw14 Wrote:
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> That moment when you realize that getting a
> speeding ticket or standing in line at Wal-Mart
> for 30 minutes isn't the biggest thing in the
> world. Priceless.

Or that a competitor swooped in and grabbed a job in your own backyard.....

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I'm "Sandi" in the Middle!
BirdyC Wrote:
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>I've become my dad!

It's only scarier the moment when you look in the mirror and see your mom staring back!

(heart)

I intend to live forever. So far, so good.
stilllearning
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> It's only scarier the moment when you look in the
> mirror and see your mom staring back!
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> (heart)

Want to bet? I see my Grandma looking back.
So true. Sometimes it is good to have wakeup call. It is too easy to complain and forget how good we have it.
I saw my Mom looking back once, and decided to do something about it...so, I now do NOT turn the lights on.

Live consciously....
Irene_L.A. Wrote:
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> I saw my Mom looking back once, and decided to do
> something about it...so, I now do NOT turn the
> lights on.

Must be hell putting your eye makeup on....
I am grateful that the temperature will reach the 70s again today. That 40-50 stuff is not for me.
I am also grateful to have recovered from the stick-pin voodoo curse inflicted upon me by a poster I will refer to only as "Double Nickels", so as to protect Cindy55's identity...Oops! Did I just write that???
Ouch!!! I think she just took my temperature the hard way, with those stick pins!
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