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nycrocks Wrote:
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> Wow! I can't believe this thread is so long and
> that I read all of it!
>
> There's some great advice here. I've been doing
> mystery shopping for one year. I have learned a
> lot, but I know I still have a lot more to learn.
> I got into MS because I was signed up with a focus
> group in NYC. They called me, offered me a shop
> with a $200 reimbursement for downloading an app
> on my iPhone, shopping at 3 stores connected with
> the app. plus a $30 fee, so I thought, why not? I
> started with that MSC and they have remained the
> best MSC for me, but I have signed up with many
> MSCs since then.
>
> I found Jobslinger and Volition and signed up with
> several MSCs. I found this forum and found more
> MSCs in the list. Through the discussions here I
> found more MSCs to sign up with. It has not been
> an instant process, but rather a slowly evolving
> one. I am someone who actually likes to seek so
> that I will find, and it has paid off.
>
> I don't blame anyone for not wanting to give away
> the names of their most lucrative companies on an
> open forum. MS is EXTREMELY competitive in my
> area! Ridiculously so. I can blink from the time I
> check my calendar to see what dates are available
> and find the shop I want has been taken when I
> return to the shop page. I don't have a car (it's
> a liability here), so I am limited as to what
> shops I can do to begin with. Why should I make it
> tougher for myself to help people I don't know?
>
> I have told a few friends about my MS work. One
> lost her job and I felt sorry for her so I gave
> her a number of the MS companies I have worked
> with. She signed up with all of the MSCs I gave
> her, and has done well for herself. I am glad I
> helped my friend, but she has now become a
> competitor and has gotten a few shops I would've
> wanted because she beat me to the website to
> self-assign. That's the price I paid to help a
> friend. It was worth it, but a small part of me
> resents it as well. Hey, I'm only human. I told
> her if she wanted more companies she would have to
> read the forum here, go to Jobslinger, Volition or
> do some google searches. Guess what? She has not
> done any of the searching or signed up with any
> new companies on her own! Soon she will find
> herself with fewer shops available because she's
> done most of the available shops from the MSCs she
> already signed up with.
>
> MS is a sink or swim business. Anyone who tries to
> rely on others too much when they can find the
> opportunities for themselves doesn't deserve to
> succeed, IMO. A little reliance is fine. The
> sooner we find our own way the better off we will
> be.
>
> If I wanted to know what were the biggest 10 MSCs
> in the U.S., I would do a Google search for
> "mystery shopping companies." I have done that and
> found work in my area. It isn't rocket science,
> and it's not much work. The biggest MSCs in the
> U.S. have been named on this thread already.
>
> To IShop4You904: You are young, which I could see
> right away from your writing style. Nothing wrong
> with being young. I can guarantee as you get older
> you will realize you knew much less at 25 than you
> believed at the time. I am absolutely not trying
> to dump on you, but it is extremely important to
> use the language correctly in business
> communications. Slang words do find their way into
> the dictionary eventually, but they're not
> acceptable in business communications and they
> never will be. If we want to be taken seriously,
> we need to present ourselves seriously. If people
> won't make the effort to spell correctly or use
> correct grammar because they can't be bothered,
> guess what? People whose business depends on
> accuracy and professionalism won't bother with
> them. There is always someone else available who
> will get the job because they will make the effort
> to play the part. The Internet has created a
> culture of young (and some older) people who are
> always looking for short cuts in communications,
> and this carries over into other things as well. I
> love the language in its pure form and I
> personally cringe at a lot of what I see online
> and hear in real time. One of my Facebook friends
> posted last week that he was going to scream if
> one more person said "prolly!" Just a little
> synchronicity ...
LOL thanks for your response. You know I don't blame anyone for not wanting to post their list either. I think I've said that, and just stated that if you didn't want to you shouldn't of posted in this thread. That's what the conversation topic was about. That's all I was saying.
I did make a point that I don't think it will make much of a difference. In your scenario not having a car that makes a bit of difference. I was planning on renting a car for my trips. As I get free insurance on a rental car if I use my credit card. There is a 200$ deposit on most rentals. However if you shop around usually you can get them for less than 15$ a day. So one shop should pay for the rental. Obviously you wouldn't rent a car for a just a few shops.
I find it ironic that you found companies because other people shared. So it seems like if no one wrote about mystery shopping or the forums you most likely would only be signed up for that one company. Plus maybe a few from google. I'd also say there are tons of subjects aside from mystery shopping where people share secrets to help other people. I couldn't believe more that helping people comes back to you 10 fold.
We need to be glad people like to share information. So much of technology is all about speeding up a process. How many free apps have you downloaded that you use? Someone made that, most likely for them self and decided to share it. Harvard and Stanford put their college courses for computer technology online for FREE. There's tons of people that help. Money in general is a competition of course mystery shopping is as well. I just find it hard to agree with the logic behind all of this.
There's a forum for Mystery shopping discussion. This is a mystery shop forum. Yes there's a general chat section as well. Seems like the common sense logic would be to keep the jokes in such there. However that's only if you use common sense which the cool kids clique here doesn't seem to have.
As far as using slang in business. I agree that's true. I pride myself on being the best I can and I work very hard. I have dark circles under my eyes and will most likely die an early age from all the stress. Which is find by me because both my parents had cancer and odds say I'm screwed. So I'm trying to accelerate my retirement. I'd like to retire with a hundred million in the bank around 40. Then live the rest of my life how Steve Jobs said he lives his. In his commencement speech he said this and ever since I read it I've envy'd him.
"I wake up everyday and look at the mirror, I ask myself 1 question. Steve are you going to be happy doing whatever it is you're doing today? If I wake up too many days in a row and the answer to that question is no, I stop doing it. Life is too short to be doing things that don't make you happy".
Like OMG how that changed my life. I watched my father work his ass off to die at a young 55. He spent so much time busting his ass and never had anything to show for it. I'll die rich or I'll die trying. I will not ever revert back to that. Statistics say I wasn't suppose to be much more than what my parents were. Both were drug addicts. I've already achieved past my expectations before I was 21. I've already won. It just wasn't good enough for me.
This isn't a job and this isn't a business. There's a red squiggly line under each misspelled word. I have an app that provides grammar. I also have an extension that with a double click of any word I instantly get a definition. Why in the world would I ever take the time to remember something I can know in a few seconds. The joke is on them. No you can't use slang at work, unless you're like me and you work for yourself. I write hip hop music. I literally get paid to write in slang.
Also that was the culture I was raised in. I literally grew up in "The hood". That's not a brag it sucked. It was not glorious but that was what I was raised around and my culture. I've had to adapt to the business like culture. When I'm talking to someone who will judge me on spelling/grammar I think 2 things. "Is it worth changing who I am and acting like someone I'm not to impress this person? Or "Gtfo". If people are going to judge me by the words I speak or type I don't need them in my life. There's billions of people and I'll care about the opinions of those people I love and will be there for me. Everyone else is simply a pawn in this game of life.
Hopefully that gives you and others a bit of perspective and understand why I'm like this and how I see the world.