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You should take a hard look at how you talk to people yourself. That is without doubt part of the problem. It's easy to compare you to a two year old throwing a tantrum. You've thrown several (though at a mediocre level, none spectacular). That way of doing business may have worked elsewhere for you at another time, but it will not work here in this business now.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
@AustinMom wrote:

The staff members from Second to None read here on our forum. Their schedulers post on the private schedulers forum on Volition that is closed to shoppers. After reading here, schedulers are free to discuss posts from our forum and individual shoppers on their forum. Schedulers regularly share bad experiences with shoppers with other schedulers. A shopper could really make a name for herself by being the subject of a vent on the schedulers forum.

Remember that we can vent on this forum and schedulers can also vent, sharing the name of a shopper with whom they have had a bad experience.

I totally understand what you are saying but I highly doubt this is her career path or main source of income. She is probably doing this for fun or out of boredom. I honestly don't think anybody can make a career path out of this, unless you're some kind of housewife that has nothing else to do but occupy your time with meaningless things.
Did you just finish reading How to Win Friends and Influence People?

Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.
@MDavisnowell wrote:

You should take a hard look at how you talk to people yourself. That is without doubt part of the problem. It's easy to compare you to a two year old throwing a tantrum. You've thrown several (though at a mediocre level, none spectacular). That way of doing business may have worked elsewhere for you at another time, but it will not work here in this business now.

M Davis from reading this forum I think you misinterpret the intent of the posting. You might want to take a seat, maybe several and really reread the original post. I do believe that there is a certain way one must conduct themselves in an email and clearly I believe the scheduler did not do so. Also I feel that your comments are very rude somewhat @#$%&-ish. Telling someone that they are throwing a tantrum over a lost report when the post is obviously is about the email received from the scheduler. I would hate to receive an email like that. To be honest I feel like you the one being a child here. Move on. & May the force be with you.
Excuse me. This is not nuclear fission but nonetheless I'm pretty serious about what I do. I pay attention and try to give good value in exchange for the opportunity to work. I've got to ask, jessiebaton, what is your career path? And is this something meaningless you do to occupy your time? And OMG housewife. I haven't heard that word in decades. I cannot ever at any time in my life remember being referred to as a housewife. Do you have one of those dictionaries of the language of long ago?

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
@MDavisnowell wrote:

Excuse me. This is not nuclear fission but nonetheless I'm pretty serious about what I do. I pay attention and try to give good value in exchange for the opportunity to work. I've got to ask, jessiebaton, what is your career path? And is this something meaningless you do to occupy your time? And OMG housewife. I haven't heard that word in decades. I cannot ever at any time in my life remember being referred to as a housewife. Do you have one of those dictionaries of the language of long ago?

Obviously you have been living under a rock and spend most of all your time shopping if you haven't heard the term "Housewife". Since you haven't heard that word in decades I'm assuming your probably my grandmother age which is 77 but then you would still have known what that term meant. Google it. Im pretty sure about a handful of shows will pop up too. That way you can have an idea what a modern day housewife looks like. =)
jessiebaton, yes the OP has been throwing tantrums because the MSC told her/him they did not receive his/her report. Of course it is about the report not being received. Of course the OP did not like the communication. Why else would the OP be here complaining about the treatment received?

I don't see anything wrong with the communication from the MSC. They made straightforward statements they did not have the report. They did not say the OP is a liar. The OP said they said the OP is a liar, but the MSC did not say the OP is a liar. They said they do not have the report. They know whether they have the report or not. The OP apparently has no confirmation number as one has not been forthcoming. That's because the OP does not have one. Because there was no confirmation number. Because they didn't get the report. Because for some reason, we will never know what, the report did not go through. It happens. It's disturbing and it's a loss but it's not a catastrophe. It doesn't mean anyone lied. It doesn't mean anyone is to blame.

As to whether I am childish, that is your opinion. It's okay with me for you to have that opinion. I don't feel childish and I'm not prone to raging fits, but hey that's just me. You know what they say, all of us have one. Me2.

And welcome to the forum. Have fun, and don't talk about MSCs and clients in the same thread.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
Interesting to have such detailed comments from a new forum member who only registered at 9:43. After making five identical posts in the Intro area (although not one of those 5 posts actually introduced herself), she hightailed it here to comment on the OP's thread. She certainly looked over the forum, scoped out this thread, and read it very fast.

My compliments, Jessie. You're a fast reader. It's almost like you came here specifically to lend support to the OP. Very interesting. Are you a full time student also, like ashnicb? Your writing style and language sound so similar, too. Perhaps a close friend or .....?
@AustinMom wrote:

Interesting to have such detailed comments from a new forum member who only registered at 9:43. After making five identical posts in the Intro area (although not one of those 5 posts actually introduced herself), she hightailed it here to comment on the OP's thread. She certainly looked over the forum, scoped out this thread, and read it very fast.

My compliments, Jessie. You're a fast reader. It's almost like you came here specifically to lend support to the OP. Very interesting. Are you a full time student also, like ashnicb? Your writing style and language sound so similar, too. Perhaps a close friend or .....?

No, I found it on current top discussions and found it interesting. Sorry you feel like I'm taking someone side. Im just very opinionated.
@jessiebaton wrote:


Obviously you have been living under a rock and spend most of all your time shopping . . .[/quote

Nope, don't live under a rock. Nope, don't spend all my time shopping. Nope, haven't thought about housewives in decades.

Can't wait to hear about your important career. We're all such simple souls here, messing around with what you think is meaningless work. Hey, do you know where I can go to join a soup line?

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
Oops. So sorry something went wrong in the post above. First line is the quote, the rest of it is my response.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
How interesting you've found this interesting. We often have new members who find existing threads interesting and they are always highly opinionated even on first arrival. You're especially interesting because you came on line suggesting we do meaningless work. I'm still waiting to hear about your sterling career and your many accomplishments. I'm here to bet most of those housewives you're running down have turned in work performances that make you look like a mud puddle. But hey, let's hear it for the way you see things. Can't wait.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
Interesting opinions. Despite the popularity of some trash TV with housewives in the title, it is actually a word that went out of fashion quite a long time ago. Personally I don't know any woman married to their house.

Would you care to share your background in this business, the one that allowed you to develop the narrow minded opinion nobody is making a career or a living from this business? Since I find the housewife reference somewhat insulting I have to wonder about the opinions of all the men who are successfully running mystery shopping businesses.

Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.
@MDavisnowell wrote:

@jessiebaton wrote:


Obviously you have been living under a rock and spend most of all your time shopping . . .[/quote

Nope, don't live under a rock. Nope, don't spend all my time shopping. Nope, haven't thought about housewives in decades.

Can't wait to hear about your important career. We're all such simple souls here, messing around with what you think is meaningless work. Hey, do you know where I can go to join a soup line?

It seems that you are a bit offended that I down Mystery Shopping as a career. I'm sorry. I forgot how people nowadays make anything into a career, like stripping. Have you heard the new Usher song?? if not google "I don't mind". Please note I am not saying that this is my career path (referring to the song)
Yep, she's insulting all right but let's give her a break. She's young and just getting started. She'll get better at it with more experience.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
No I have not heard the new Usher song. And I have not heard any of the old Usher songs. I am delighted this is not your career path, can't tell you what a relief that is. I know you would never do this, as you consider it meaningless, so I don't understand why you're here. Unless you just came here to support your buddy who cannot play checkers. How bout you darlin' can you play checkers?

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
Insulting? Nah. I could never really be insulted by someone like her.

Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.
Woah! I come back to this post looking for when to expect payment from Intellishop and see this! I have no idea what is up with jessiebaton. I have no friends that mystery shop. They just don't understand it. I wish they did though. I am in NO way affiliated with this crazy person.

@AustinMom I understand that they can see what I say and talk about me and that is 100% fine. I put in QUALITY work for these companies and that can be proven by my shop scores (i'm not bragging AT ALL, just saying). If a company does not want to work with me because of my post and find NOTHING wrong with the way the emails were communicated to me by the scheduler, I don't want to work for them anyway. I am not attacking you or anything. I appreciate you telling me that. smiling smiley

@MDavisnowell we're done with you.

@jessiebaton WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM? ARE YOU EVEN A MYSTERY SHOPPER? PLEASE STOP POSTING..OR AT LEAST TO THIS THREAD!

Now can we all go to bed?! Can someone PLEASE tell me how to delete this post??
Oh so you are trying to make a career path out of this? I was just saying that she/he was probably just doing this for fun. . . or boredom. For me, its fun. I don't take life too serious, I suggest you do the same. & May the force be with you.
@ashnicb wrote:

Woah! I come back to this post looking for when to expect payment from Intellishop and see this! I have no idea what is up with jessiebaton. I have no friends that mystery shop. They just don't understand it. I wish they did though. I am in NO way affiliated with this crazy person.

@AustinMom I understand that they can see what I say and talk about me and that is 100% fine. I put in QUALITY work for these companies and that can be proven by my shop scores (i'm not bragging AT ALL, just saying). If a company does not want to work with me because of my post and find NOTHING wrong with the way the emails were communicated to me by the scheduler, I don't want to work for them anyway. I am not attacking you or anything. I appreciate you telling me that. smiling smiley

@MDavisnowell we're done with you.

@jessiebaton WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM? ARE YOU EVEN A MYSTERY SHOPPER? PLEASE STOP POSTING..OR AT LEAST TO THIS THREAD!

Now can we all go to bed?! Can someone PLEASE tell me how to delete this post??

Woah, did your caps lock get stuck?? And I have no problem, just sharing my opinions.
What is your definition of a career path? I've normally heard that in reference to employment at a company rather than self-employment.

Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.
What kind of force would that be?

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
What is a career path? Is that some kind of job trail? Like going from job to job and throwing out bread crumbs in case you need to backtrack? Is that a career path? That's a new one on me. I never knew I was supposed to have one of those. So that's my problem, I never knew about career paths. Are those new? How new are they? Am I really supposed to have one? Will I find it in the back pasture, down by the cow trail? Or is it more likely to be in town, on the concrete? Maybe it's out by the college. I'll bet that's it. I'll bet those kids out at the college think they're going to have career paths. Chortle Chortle.

Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.
As a full time stripper housewive (aka Domestic Goddess), I take offense to Jessiebaton's rude comments about my career path of choice. Strippers make a ton of money and it helps to put me through college.
This happenned to me once and called them. I found the shop in the incomplete status at the time. That was on their old site though and I'm not too familiar with the new dashboard.
I would like to add a comment for any newbies who may read this thread. Second to None has never been anything short of professional and easy to work with, in my experience. They have answered all of my questions quickly and have always paid me on time, every month. And in my neck of the woods, the bonuses can be pretty hefty.

Way to go!
I have never had an issue with this MS company. I have used the new updated system a few months ago and it is much simpler. However, as with most I always write down the confirmation number and the time it was submitted. Research would be very hard to do without it. Just like any work I do always double check, even then errors occur since we are human. No need to get heated, systematic responses may seem 'impersonal' but they are far from unprofessional or rude. It is what it is and efficiency is key in any business, including ours.
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