I agree 100% that as far as the forum members are concerned the purpose of the forum is to share experiences. Our experiences in performing shops, the problems we encounter, and the solutions we develop are the meat of the forum. Our friendly and casual relationships with one another are the joy. Many of us have at first taken much and later given it back over and again, enabling others to become successful quicker. A few come here to criticize and complain, and while we listen we may not listen well.
I fully understand when someone wants to share that they are unhappy with a company, did not like the reports, did not get on well with the staff, or find the pay level unsatisfactory. That is interesting and I will keep it in mind when I sign up and try them out. Unless a company does not pay for accepted work, I will not accept any one individual's recommendation to avoid them based on their personal experience.
I put no credence in the first time poster who comes here to rant and rave about "they treated me like trash and I did a great job and they won't pay me and I won't ever shop for that scum again". I don't care. But write a controlled and fair post telling me what went wrong and I'll try to help you. I can't speak for everyone else on the forum, but I'm sick of the baseless attacks posted here (sometimes by those with multiple identities) seeking vengeance on an MSC for a shop gone south. I have one floating down south right now, and it's not likely to come back north, but you won't hear any badmouthing of the MSC from me. I know I screwed it up and if I lose it, well, I lose it. Hard cookies.
Many of us are signed up with hundreds of companies and over the course of years have probably shopped for hundreds, even though we may only be active with ten to twenty at any given time. We have learned that some hated companies are our favorites, and we have learned that some favorites of others do not make our Christmas list. Experience has taught us to take "avoid" recommendations with a thank you and a notation to disregard the disparagement until proven further and with more than one shopper.
It's true that sometimes a poster will get blasted because of a negative post. It depends on the information given to substantiate the complaint and whether we feel we got the real story. Remember, we've been there and we've seen the show up close ourselves. If there's a rat in the store, we'll smell the rat and when we smell the rat we are not happy posters. That's when you're likely to see a little kickback on a negative post.
Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.