The OP stated: "So I received an email from an editor at ACL last month, perfectly reasonable concern over a shop I did. I replied, then received another notice four days later saying she really needed a response or the shop would be dropped. I responded again, thinking maybe I forgot to hit send last time (though I certainly wrote something out.)."
To me, that sounds very much as if the second request was a duplicate of the first. If that's not correct, I hope the OP will clarify, and I will stand corrected if my assumption was wrong.
@Tarantado wrote:
Basically all email servers I've ever had experience with provided some kind of rejection email or delivery issue message if there was issue with sending it or delivering it to the email receiver. Like I said, there's ways to cover this, such as Read Receipts or Delivery Confirmations, but I don't even think the free email servers like Gmail even offer that option or not.
I have five e-mail accounts. Two of them never or rarely give me an "email rejected" notice when the recipient's server bounces my sent mail, and one of them never gives a sender a notice when it can't deliver an e-mail to my inbox.
@Tarantado wrote:
"Checking someone's work" shouldn't mean for us to babysit or follow up if a 'thank you email' isn't received. Yes, I understand we're talking about ACL, but there has been shops where I did not receive a 'Thank you for submitting your report' email for at least 2-3 days after submitting my report. Should I have followed up with ACL? If my voicemail is empty, no missed calls were received and my email is empty of anything ACL-related, I'd say the ball was passed to ACL's court, at that point, and nothing else is needed from me.
That's not what I meant or said. By "checking one's work" (not checking "someone's" work), I meant that instead of relying on spell-check, sometimes we need to do good old-fashioned proofreading of our own work before we submit a report--not assume technology can accurately do it for us.
I don't expect a follow-up from an MSC every time I respond to them about something. But I do check the status of my jobs, and if some amount of time has gone by, and the shop hasn't been corrected and/or changed from "complete" to "received," then I think the burden is on me to check with them and make sure they received the information they asked for.
I learn something new every day, but not everyday!
I've learned to never trust spell-check or my phone's auto-fill feature.