I don't let the ap flap for long.
If I'm applying on line on the company website, I enter it on my job sheet as "applied" and it can sit until I get a firm or better offer, or my day moves in a different geographical location. Then I'll cancel the pending application without remorse. After all, we're all trying to nail down a day.
If I'm responding to an email, I get really specific about what I can do and sometimes I'll make an offer even if I can't meet their deadline.
Recently I had an email on a rush job "today or tomorrow" at $11. I read the email at 9:30 p.m. at night so "today" was over. "Tomorrow" was remotely possible but not convenient. I wanted to do the job "day after tomorrow" and thought that might possibly work. Here's what I did. I responded to the email and offered to do the job "tomorrow" for $25.00, explaining that I'd have to re-work my schedule. However, I could do it "day after tomorrow" for $15.00.
This gave the company a direct link back to me if they couldn't fill it "tomorrow" for $11.
I got a wakeup call first thing in the morning "day after tomorrow" asking if I could still do this shop for $15. Of course I could. Happy me. Bingo!
Mary Davis Nowell. Based close to Fort Worth. Shopping Interstate 20 east and west, Interstate 35 north and south.