I did my first new car shop the other day, the scheduler had written me and said feel free to bring my husband along.
I felt so bad for the salesman - he was young, super polite and super friendly. He did NOT ask us to take a test drive, in spite of me hinting strongly while looking at the car (I was not allowed to ask for one). Then - the entire last page of the report was about receiving a follow up call in 7 days. He didn't ask for my number! Because he was so nice - as he was shaking our hand and making sure we had his card, I said "Do you want my contact info?" I was literally throwing free points at him. He replied, "No that's okay, I'm not the kind of salesman to follow up with calls - if you want the car, I know you will be back."
Ugh. So I played up his friendly, non-pushy nature, but I know he will get slammed when his results come in. :-(
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Always take the high road.