I am certainly no anti-vaxxer. Each year a large number of individuals die from the annual flu and what they have in common for the most part is that they did NOT get their annual flu shot. Without data at my fingertips I will just state my opinion that my risk of dying from flu without the annual vaccination is much higher than my risk of dying from a flu shot. My suspicion is that the folks who had side effects from the flu shot were related to the chicken egg standardly used to create the vaccinations. If you have an egg allergy you cannot take the regular flu shots. We are asked each year about any known allergies and specifically an allergy to eggs just prior to being administered the shot.
I personally am more than happy to get a shot rather than an illness. I keep my tetanus, pneumonia, and flu shots up to date. My doc has indicated that unless I am traveling to certain areas there is no need to do boosters on polio, smallpox, yellow fever and typhoid. When they came out with an improved shingles shot, we were quickly on the waiting list to get it even though we already had the less effective once-in-a-lifetime shingles shots. I had the childhood diseases--measles, mumps and chicken pox, and my doc indicates I don't also need the shot they give for that. Far better to spend a few bucks (or even a lot of bucks) getting a vaccination than being sick for a few or a whole lot of days. If my getting shots helps maintain 'herd immunity', that is just fine as well.
With COVID the issues appear to go well beyond mere survival. Because of the way it impacts body systems there have been reports of kidney damage requiring on-going dialysis, heart problems, blood clots throughout the body (that can cause death if they lodge in the heart), mental impacts, lung, kidney and liver problems, etc. The disease is still new enough that no one can say whether the degeneration will get worse over time or whether the body will repair itself over time. When they are needing to do full lung transplants to what was a healthy 23 year old because she is alive and has cleared the virus, but her lungs were demolished by the disease, that is a problem beyond mere survival. She will be on anti-rejection drugs for the rest of her life at a cost of about $15,000 the first year and around $10,000 per year thereafter. The strain on the organ donor pool is going to be catastrophic as well so please make sure you have registered yourself as an organ donor. Once you no longer need your organs, perhaps they can save someone else's life.