For me, I think it breaks down to a need versus a want. If I can do a grocery store shop, I'll count that in my income category (for personal, nor for tax purposes, etc.). In that instance, it's something I would buy anyway and I don't have to earn money that is then taxed to get it. So, instead of earning $125 paying taxes and maybe being able to get $100 worth of groceries, I can just get groceries as a reimbursement. I also feel like that about drug store shops. If I needed razor blades or shower gel, etc. then it's a win not to buy it. It gets a little more conplicated when I wouldn't pay as much for it as I have to pay at a store. I supposed the difference then is the pay, if there is any.
I don't count fancier meals as pay. I wouldn't necessarily pay for this, at least not regularly so it's kind of a little bonus. I don't really consider it to be pay because it's more of a want than a need. Most of the fine dining shops I've done have been a gigantic pain too so what was really thrilling initially has become more trouble than it's worth most of the time.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/04/2022 05:49PM by olympia tennenbaum.