I'm sorry if you thought I was referring to you specifically. You are hardly the only person I asked that question of and you are not the only one who made the similar comment. I personally think private discussions should stay private, but in this instance several people said the same thing and it seemed like an innocent enough statement.
I still don't get the big deal. She apparently told several people, or one person who repeated it to several people, that she did not like all the fighting. Someone asked where she went and since no one had replied I gave the simplest answer I could. That apparently she was upset. I was asked to further elaborate and I stated the reason I was told. I don't think that was a bad reason to not post in the least bit and she would hardly be the first person to leave because people bicker here for sure.
The only thing I have said that was in the least bit grudging or condescending is the fact that my opinion differs from what I have heard she is telling people. And I honestly have no grudge against Flash. I'm not sure why I should unless she was involved in my dispute with other forum members in a way that wasn't made public?
There are reasons that a body stays in motion
At the moment only demons come to mind