These are definitions listed in addition to the actual food.
Oxford dictionary: A meal or gathering at which meat, fish, or other food is cooked out of doors on a rack over an open fire or on a special appliance.
‘in the evening there was a barbecue’
Dictionary.com: a meal, usually in the open air and often as a political or social gathering, at which meats are roasted over an open hearth or pit.
Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.