What can be a perfect gift to give her at valentine's day?

@COMystery wrote:

If it's a relatively new relationship, cooking and cleaning up afterwards is great. If it is a more mature relationship, I say take her out to dinner. Flowers are a given either way and a card that you pick out that has a special meaning for the two of you.

not too new neither a mature one.. we have started 6 months back

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Now i am pretty sure i would not do the dishes or cooking tongue sticking out smiley women does not appreciate this if a man doing this tongue sticking out smiley
Do not underestimate the power of doing the dishes....

@natjoe75 wrote:

Now i am pretty sure i would not do the dishes or cooking tongue sticking out smiley women does not appreciate this if a man doing this tongue sticking out smiley

Hard work builds character and homework is good for your soul.
yeahh i guess you are right.. i wasn't that much into dating like this is my second date.. So yeah understanding women is may be the most difficult thing.. its better to talk
@JASFLALMT wrote:

He gets the plates in the right cabinet but when I pull one out a couple of days late to use and it's greasy or has small particles of stuck on food that he missed and I have to rewash it...yuk.

@Irene_L.A. wrote:

I'm so with you, not because of germs, but putting plates in the wrong cabinet and such....then you can't find anything, .oooh! Growing up, the kitchen was my Grandmother's, as my Mother worked and did't cook. No one messed with her kitchen, she would schoo us out...but my man can do anything he wants in the garage...LOL

thats not good tongue sticking out smiley JASFLALMT
Wow, talk about a bait and switch. Sorry dude, you are barking up the wrong tree and I feel scammed. People on this site aren't gullible enough to click on your link. You did give us something interesting to talk about, ending up not really being about you, though. Go elsewhere.
haha.. this is not some scam or anything.. i was just sharing the thing i liked nothing else.. if you dont see it that way so its totally upto youu smiling smiley
@JASFLALMT wrote:

Wow, talk about a bait and switch. Sorry dude, you are barking up the wrong tree and I feel scammed. People on this site aren't gullible enough to click on your link. You did give us something interesting to talk about, ending up not really being about you, though. Go elsewhere.


and i really like your concern about that grinning smiley
So...are you a mystery shopper or what? I have never seen you around before. You would have to be a part of the community for awhile to be posting and sharing links that anyone would trust. Why don't you tell us some of your mystery shopping stories?
@JASFLALMT wrote:

So...are you a mystery shopper or what? I have never seen you around before. You would have to be a part of the community for awhile to be posting and sharing links that anyone would trust. Why don't you tell us some of your mystery shopping stories?

i was looking to talk about this thus i find this forum and i started the conversation.I know that it takes to build up the trust to share any thing.. but being a new member and sharing something you like is not something wrong i guess?
@JASFLALMT wrote:

Sorry, it's going to take a lot longer than a couple of days. Try a couple of years.

Sure and as i said i appreciate your concerns for this forum. But you dont want to follow the link is totally upto you. no harm smiling smiley
@natjope75,

This is the general chat board. You can talk about anything here. Please consider that sometimes, we the members, only think that we should rule the board and kick people out or elevate them at will. The truth is that all members should be given an opportunity.

I like your topic. It's timely and fun. Thanks! smiling smiley

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu
I never tried to "rule the board" it's just that the OP was posting spam links. He has no other posts about mystery shopping. It's against the rules to post spam, that's why the mods removed the link.
Is it a requirement that people shall post only in certain areas of this forum?

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu
What? I have no idea what you are talking about. People aren't allowed to post spam links.
Yes, but you mentioned that the op had no other posts about mystery shopping.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu


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Which makes me think that they joined solely to post spam links. Quit pretending to be obtuse, or are you not pretending?
You can't post spam links ANYWHERE in the forum. Doesn't matter if it's general chat or not.

@Shop-et-al wrote:

Is it a requirement that people shall post only in certain areas of this forum?
For our sanity, yes, post where the threads confer with what you pot (oops, I mean post), this has been sidetracked in a normal way, that's o.k...but why would a newbie post links, which can be suspicious. Warning about new links from people you don't trust or know, your computer can get a virus...we don't want that, do we?

Live consciously....


Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/27/2018 06:42PM by Irene_L.A..
No one ever said that the OP could not talk about anything here. Also, no one mentioned anything about kicking people out. Next time read all the posts before assuming that anyone was doing such a thing. We had a nice discussion about various things up until the point where the OP posted a spam link. It's not good to assume you know something that you obviously don't know--because you didn't read all the posts before posting what you wrote below, SEA.

@Shop-et-al wrote:

@natjope75,

This is the general chat board. You can talk about anything here. Please consider that sometimes, we the members, only think that we should rule the board and kick people out or elevate them at will. The truth is that all members should be given an opportunity.

I like your topic. It's timely and fun. Thanks! smiling smiley
PLEASE...only Jacob can "kick people out" and he is very cautious about doing that. The members have no power, so don't slight the older forum members, whenever you join anything, there will be those that came before you and formed friends....that's a good thing, as the older members are giving the newbies advice and trying to help. The topic was fun and we all participated, until s/he flipped on us. Let's tell it like it is, and when your mind is once again clear, you will say the right thing, I know it....smile, it's Saturday!!

Live consciously....
Cook a nice meal set a beautiful table. (and clean up) Nothing else required.

@natjoe75 wrote:

@Shop-et-al wrote:

Vaca? Jewelry? New pet? Chocolate? Coupons for personalized practical or fun services? Cook or clean for her? Take her to fine dining establishment? Florist delivery? Plant a rose bush for her? A whole day about her?

Infinite options... It all depends on what she likes and would appreciate. Whatvwould she appreciate? smiling smiley

Ohh yeahh... after considering all the options... she does love pets and eating lot of chocs.. I thought about taking her to a fine place to dine but now i am thinking to do something inhouse like i can cook, i cook good, so i can cook for her plus i can do alot other things.

What do you think?
Dinner, comedy club, dancing and an overnight at a hotel whose checkout time is 3 pm. .
Fun topic. And it's all good - the OP's topic is great and his spam link was removed, so he will probably leave, but we can keep discussing.

I love the suggestions. Keep giving ideas. It's giving me ideas for Valentine and also Christmas, anniversary, and birthdays.
Whatever you do, make it a surprise, don't ask what do you want..woman love surprise's, make a reservation, don't tell her, be low key and when the day comes, bam, honney, why don't we dress up tonight, and just go, flowers always, I used to love dinner /dancing, just a great fun night out.....the key word is "rekindle".
I have a good friend with a terrific husband, every B-day or V-day, he asks, "what do you want", and it causes her to say nothing, which is what usually happens.

Live consciously....


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