Coronavirus Non-Compliance

Today was so strange going to my mom's house. They eat out all meals and have no food in their house. We buy food on sale and stock up. The cabinets were empty. I spent about $400 between Amazon, Walmart, Costco, and the local discount grocery. I feel like I just started to make a dent, that there are so many things missing. I feel like there are all kinds of other things I need to get her to have a functional kitchen. Maybe she owns a pot, some silverware, I didn't see much else. It's bizarre.

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Maybe she has a microwave. So many things can be cooked that way, especially for ppl who aren't comfortable using the stove/oven.
Food that is nutritious but doesn't need to be cooked: cottage cheese, yogurt, tuna and some other canned fish, fruit salads, veggie salads, some lunch meats, applesauce, whole grain crackers, Breakfast Essentials (in milk), pork & beans, etc.
One of my kids delivers for DoorDash. She called me up just furious the other night. She went to pick up at a Chinese fast food place, and there were 17 (!) people inside in the dining room.
They were eating, dining in. The fault is of the restaurant for allowing it, but those who were there was also at fault.
@Sandy Shopper wrote:

Food that is nutritious but doesn't need to be cooked: cottage cheese, yogurt, tuna and some other canned fish, fruit salads, veggie salads, some lunch meats, applesauce, whole grain crackers, Breakfast Essentials (in milk), pork & beans, etc.

I bought large amounts of eggs, butter, yogurt, bread, bagels, croissants, oatmeal, just add water pancake mix, fresh fruit, nuts, crackers, cake, vegetables, animal crackers, peanut butter, tuna and other canned fish, chicken, ground turkey, paper goods, soups, rice mixes, chocolate, etc. I asked her what she wanted. So, like four pounds of butter, five dozen eggs, ten pounds of chicken breast, 30 rolls of toilet paper, a good six pounds of nuts, boxes upon boxes of things. There isn't much to "cook."

I need to buy her toothpaste, shampoo, soap, all of that stuff. It will be indefinite every two weeks until they can leave the house. I'm happy my job pays me and I can work from home.

I'll do it as long as I need to. The other thing that bothers me is she has these alley cats that she feeds some duck/quail who knows what $40/small bag cat food. I don't want to buy that. This appears to be another good $600 month (?) as it is, whatever, but the cat food puts me over the edge of annoyance.

We spend about $40-50/week on food. I cook everything and we eat normal portions. I shop sales and don't buy packaged food, and the above amount includes buying in bulk for sales.

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/29/2020 03:04AM by Niner.
Perhaps instead of using your time and resources shopping and worrying---you could cook extra portions of your own food and make meal packets for Mom to reheat?

I too shop sales and dont buy packaged food. Spending big bucks on alley cats would put me over the edge too.
That's a good idea. I could do that for dinners. They had nothing in the house, which is why I bought so much, like things for breakfast and lunch. Trump is trying to limit travel into NY, so I hope I can go there. He wants to quarintine the tri state area, but seemed to back off a little. I used to be on three asthma meds, so going to NY is definitely stressing me out, especially since I think my mom and step dad are still going out. Their small town has as many cases as my decent sized out of state county.
Or doesn't want to cook.

@JASFLALMT wrote:

It doesn't do much good if she doesn't know how to cook.

"I told myself to quit you; but I don't listen to drunks." -Chris Stapleton
One of my brothers had a double lung transplant 7 years ago. He got asbestosis from being in the Navy. So he has a very weakened immune system. He said they had plenty of food in the house already, so him and his wife don't have to go out. He said when they need Dairy, produce, other perishables they order online and have it delivered. The delivery leaves it and then text him right away that it was left.
Here’s what I wish would get more focus:

Stay-at-home is not only about contracting/spreading the virus.
It is about reducing the risks we all take (for granted) when we leave home.
It is about not providing opportunity for any mishap that could require attention from already exhausted/exposed services; think police, fire, hospital.
We can not foresee all; accidents happen. For each of us, it is also about avoiding the terror of needing care during this pandemic. Imagine.
For the community and its service workers, it is about not adding another human being needing care to the already overwhelmed system.
Fewer out and about reduces this risk. Being extra careful at home, too.

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/03/2020 02:13PM by QualityDatais1st.
You are right. The weather has been nice and I see motorcycles out. Ours are staying in the garage, the last thing I want is to go to a hospital, to be another person who needs care and to avoid the covid cases at the same time.
@Niner wrote:

You are right. The weather has been nice and I see motorcycles out. Ours are staying in the garage, the last thing I want is to go to a hospital, to be another person who needs care and to avoid the covid cases at the same time.

Yeah, not interested in a hospital stay if I can avoid it. And i'm REALLY not interested in staying on a folding cot in a gymnasium.
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