According to Merriam-Webster, the 2022 word of the Year is

... *drum roll, please*

Gaslighting!

Searches for this word were 1740% greater in 2022 than in 2021. That increase must mean something.

So... umm... Is this a quick way to avoid reading Machiavelli? Are people concerned about real life gaslighting? Any reference to The Art of War? All's fair...What?

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I can just see teachers from long ago staring me down and hear them commanding, "Now, use 'gaslighting' in a sentence."

I am beyond that old, immediate sort of compliance and invite anyone here who is brave enough to use 'gaslighting' in a sentence to post their work here. What. We do not have a classroom, chalkboards, whiteboards, connected interactive devices to commune with teachers, etc. grinning smiley

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu


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Climate change activists are gaslighting to gain even more control and to destroy the USA.
If you want to have a good understanding of how the word "gaslighting" came to be, just watch the 1940s B&W version of the movie "Gaslight" with Charles Boyer and Ingrid Bergman. Boyer used the term to the nth degree!! Quite a good psychological thriller!!
@guysmom wrote:

If you want to have a good understanding of how the word "gaslighting" came to be, just watch the 1940s B&W version of the movie "Gaslight" with Charles Boyer and Ingrid Bergman. Boyer used the term to the nth degree!! Quite a good psychological thriller!!

Gaslight is an excellent film.
AND, it introduced a very young actress by the name of Angela Landsbury.

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I live with a crude gaslighter. Yikes! It will be a pleasure to see Angela Lansbury in the movie 'Gaslight' and also see the gaslighting techniques therein. Now, all I have to do is find the movie on a free online service or via a library.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu
Such a classic seems very likely to be available from a public library.

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If my library does not have 'Gaslight', the university library will undoubtedly have it. Its collection of classic movies is extensive.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu
I think so many people googled it because they can't figure out what it means.. From what I can tell, it is just used to cast aspersions on someone with whom you disagree.

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I would add that it involves an element of premeditation. Gaslighting is a deliberate act or cluster of actions. How far will someone go, with or without ability to acknowledge awareness of their efforts, to gaslight another? With my hubby, the apple did not fall far from the tree. I believe that he will never question the appropriateness of the family's use of gaslighting and other methods of destruction. Mind you, I love his family. I strongly disapprove of their determination to harm and destroy. I like nurturing and get that from other people.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu


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@mystery2me wrote:

I think so many people googled it because they can't figure out what it means.. From what I can tell, it is just used to cast aspersions on someone with whom you disagree.
In the movie "Gaslight" it meant using psychological manipulation to make someone think things that weren't true, and even to get them to question their own sanity and reason.
@walesmaven wrote:

AND, it introduced a very young actress by the name of Angela Landsbury.
Yes! She was great in her role, wasn't she?!!
@Shop-et-al wrote:

I live with a crude gaslighter. Yikes! It will be a pleasure to see Angela Lansbury in the movie 'Gaslight' and also see the gaslighting techniques therein. Now, all I have to do is find the movie on a free online service or via a library.

If you cant find it for free, its $2.99 on YouTube, Google Play Movies, Amazon Prime or Vudu.
@Shop-et-al wrote:

If my library does not have 'Gaslight', the university library will undoubtedly have it. Its collection of classic movies is extensive.
dailymotion.com has TONS of great movies for free, INCLUDING the 1944 version of Gaslight with Charles Boyer. You can watch it on a laptop or phone, or share it through Web Video Caster onto your Roku. Anyhow, here's the link that will take you directly to the movie:

[www.dailymotion.com]

Get your popcorn and enjoy!!
Thanks, everyone. I found and watched the movie. It was good to include the heroine's bravery. Talking-- talking back, talking to someone, or even shouting it down are better than silence and not correcting lies.

Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished. - Lao-Tzu
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