Shuchi, that is different than the impression given by your first post. They did not reach out to you unsolicited, the request was because of an inquiry you initiated. You should be fine faxing under those circumstances.
Equal rights for others does not mean fewer rights for you. It's not pie.
"I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag." -Molly Ivins
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it really annoys the pig.