Thank you SO MUCH FOR ALL THE RESPONSES! I THOUGHT that I had clicked on the email notification thingy. I really appreciate the info! There's something to work with!!!!
I don't honestly know if my friend could emotionally cope with a real job, right now. PLUS, she's got Medicaid, now with the public assistance, and NEEDS to get "caught up" with some doctor's visits. "I" don't know how a transition works from public assistance to work with regards to the medical end. She seems to be SO AFRAID of everything. I think that everything might need to progress in baby steps, for awhile.
Her ex royally screwed her over, and she has had an out of state gypsy existence for the past couple of years, plus a certain amount of time, in a psychiatric facility when she had become suicidal. She has her clothes and a few knick knacks. She had been married for over 20 years to a verbally abusive man, and is pretty thoroughly beaten down. Her ex also threw out everything that she had owned, a lot of which had been family items.
I'm personally thankful, that all of the above has put a little back of fight back into her, but, I'm not sure how much is in there. I've seen her a couple of times, and she's NOT in the right place, yet, to be able to cope with much. To be honest, I'm not even sure, if she has it in her to claw her way back.
She has a smart phone and access to a computer where she is living now. I did ask her if she would be able to earn any sort of income, and she told me that she would have to report what she earns to Social Services. She has access to a car part time, but doesn't currently own one.
I didn't know that you could do Paypal without a bank account, so THAT alone, could be a stepping stone, in and of itself. She's petrified of making ANY mistakes, and is also not seeing any sort of light at the end of "her" tunnel.
MY goal is to hopefully get a light going, that she can see. I just know that she has been there for some of my darkest moments, and it's my turn to step up to the plate and do what I can do.