Why are you posting this in multiple places? Just edit out anything you wrote. IMO, the thread should stand for a couple of reasons. First, you indicated you were an independent merchandiser which is now questionable because you are referring to your "employer." Second, the responses were spot on. Members should always beware any postings for jobs asking for replies to be sent to a generic, free email provider.
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