RIP - BusyBeeBuzzBuzzBuzz

B was a friend of mine in real life. We had a falling out and didn't talk for quite a few years. We reconnected here in 2024.
She hasn't been here since February. She passed away in March. She had not been healthy for a very long time, but everything seemed to be getting worse in the last decade. RIP.

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She would not want me to reveal her real name on a forum.

Anyway, just wanted to share a few memories of B.
We met online in the early 2000's on Volition forum, where she became a moderator not long before it closed down. We finally met in-person in Anaheim at an MSPA Convention. She was as blind as a bat. She walked into the glass wall of the ballroom at least once. She was very smart, had an advanced degree, but did not use it after a few years. She moved to shopping, which was a huge income cut, but it was what she wanted to do. She always did things her way. She was stubborn. She was fiercely loyal and generous. She loved to talk smack about our nemesis. We are both on the West Coast, so we saw some crazy stuff late night on Volition.

B loved Chinese food and in her not so humble opinion, Oakland Chinatown was better than San Francisco's Chinatown. She warned me about moon pies. She said that they serve last year's pies. She did not trust easily.

B had no sense of direction. She left my house in So Cal and was driving back to her house in Nor Cal. She called me an hour later to tell me that she was at the Mexican Border. She had gone south on I-5 instead of north. She used Streets and Trips for everything back then, except for getting home I guess? I told her to come back and stay another night. Such a goof. This was back before I had wifi in the house. I think that I had just moved in? I remember her driving around my neighborhood with some sort of device to tap into people's home wifi if they had no password. LOL

She loved animals - chickens and cats mostly. When my cat died, she was so compassionate and helpful.

B was smarter than 99.99% of us here. She spent far too long on her reports and failed as an editor, since she expected others to care as much as she did. If she was assigned a shop, it was going to get done. She was trusted with big projects and off-the-board work. She also did random stuff that I never understood - multiple Quick Quacks in a day? Odd.

Anyway, B, gone but not forgotten. Your suffering is over. RIP with the Lord.

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I'm sorry to learn this. B will be missed I was in Oakland china town a few weeks ago.......
Coming out of my self imposed retirement from the MS industry to comment here. I first met B in 1999 or 2000. I also lived in the same state as she did at the time and she, along with a couple of other MS friends from the Volition forum road tripped and we all met up and hung out for what would be the first of more than a dozen times over the next couple of decades.

B was an incredible mystery shopper for us. In fact, one year, she was named "Go To Shopper of the Year". She would go far out of her normal range as a favor to me, even in dicier neighborhoods.

When my husband John (former owner of Surfmerchants/Sassie) and I first got together 20 years ago, it created quite a stir in the MS world, but B was our biggest cheerleader. She and John got along famously and also developed a friendship in real life.

She was one of the most stubborn people I knew, but was fiercely loyal. She also had an incredible amount of integrity. She did not take short cuts, she never lied and she always had my back.

So so sad to learn of her passing. RIP, B. You will be missed.
Thanks for sharing. Terribly sad to learn this.
oh my, this is sad news.
B was my kind of person.
may she rest in peace.
Thank you for letting us know, BayShopper22. BusyBee will be missed around here. Sad news indeed.
Oh I am sorry to hear this news. I always found her posts to be helpful and she was a valuable contributor. Thank you for letting us know.
life is a shadow

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So sorry to hear this. Thanks for letting us know.
Oh, wow! RIP! I used to love to read her insight on everything.

Shopping Arkansas, Louisiana, & Mississippi.
So very sorry to read this. Rest in peace, Busy.

If your path dictates you walk through hell, do it as though you own the place. -unknown
Aw, man. I scheduled her to do several shops over the years prior to 2020, but since then haven't had much in her area to schedule her. She was such a fantastic mystery shopper and an even better person the few times we actually spoke on the phone, though most of our contact was through email. B was absolutely a "go-to" shopper for her area, and went out of her way for me way more than once. I wish her family peace and healing, and hope she rests peacefully. She'll be very missed.
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