OK. The following is just how I feel. Not thinking or saying mine is the only way...
When it comes to privacy, I prefer the opt-in option over the opt-out option. I feel this way not just about privacy when it is related to mystery shopping, but in most other areas as well.
If I gave Entity A my email, phone number, etc., *for a specific purpose*, I would *not* like it if Entity A used that information for another purpose or shared that information with Entity B *without getting my consent first* (opt-in) -- even if Entity A thought I would benefit.
Opting in can be general or specific. For example, I may tell Entity A only once that he/she/it is welcome to share my information with other schedulers or MSCs, and that permission is good *until I tell Entity A I've changed my mind*.
If a scheduler has my information only through mystery shopping and he/she contacts me about income opportunities or products that are totally unrelated to mystery shopping, I probably won't be a happy camper.
Will I be very upset and want the scheduler to be punished? Probably not.
Will I politely let the scheduler know that I am not interested and ask that he/she refrain from using my information in similar manners again? Probably.
I am equally protective of information others shared with me. I may, in some instances, feel comfortable recommending another shopper to a scheduler by first name and general shopping area. However, before giving that shopper's phone number, email address, or last name to the scheduler, I will most probably ask the other shopper's permission first (if the other shopper did not already give me a blanket permission to share her information with schedulers).
Most of the time, I prefer to ask the scheduler's permission to pass along the scheduler's contact information or job posting to the shopper so that the shopper may, at his/her discretion, contact the scheduler.
I feel this way for several reasons. First, years ago, I had a whack-job scheduler call my *unlisted number* and say hostile and creepy things to me – after she got my phone number from another scheduler who did *not* have my permission to share my information. I never worked for that whack-job scheduler and so she did not have my phone number. I never worked again for the scheduler who betrayed my trust and violated my privacy.
Second, once someone has violated your privacy and made previously private information public, no one can really put the genie back into the bottle. It has now been more than five years since I stopped using an email address for shopping or almost anything else – and I am still getting spam at that address.
Finally, most of us know, or know of, schedulers and MSCs that are immoral, unethical and unprofessional. One scheduler was even *convicted* of, IIRC, fraud and identity theft. How would you feel if a scheduler shared your information with someone who later turns out to be a rotten apple?