I have never seen creating a scenario for a mystery shop as a lie. I can't go into a men's store and expect to buy a dress, I can't go into an upscale restaurant and wear my pajama pants and so on. Actors, lawyers, teacher to name a few careers that have to entertain an audience. A sales person retail, dining or any service industry has to also entertain the customer in front of them. That being said, prior to entering the 'mystery shop' world my career was retail management. I spent 25 years training, developing my staff for several national and global retailers. Most used mystery shopping as a tool and management used it coach and develop staff. I personally loved the feed back. The main reason I liked mystery shop reports is to see what my teams strengths were and where I could focus my time to improve. Retail is not an 9-5 work environment so it makes it hard to keep an eye on what is going on in your store all the time. In the end the management running the stores are thankful to get the feed back and if there not well. they should look for a new company to work for. Keep shopping it really helps everyone!
Thank you for your thoughtful replies.