HI, Joan...good to hear from you.
I cut back a bit this month too. MY last shop for December,though, is TODAY. Afdter that, it's "delete, delete, delete" and letting the voice mail do its "thing" in order to resist "temptation".
And, I Agree (oops. Not an ICA!), family IS more important ALL of the time!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!