Karen IL Wrote:
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> Glabow wrote:
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> "The teachers let them get away with it because
> they are a) lazy, or b) incompetent."
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> Wow. That's a major generalization, wouldn't you
> say? As a teacher who is neither lazy nor
> incompetent, I take exception to that.
>
> By the way, you spelled "grammar" incorrectly in
> the last sentence.
I agree - generalizations are just bad news. We sometimes assume we know all about incentives and objectives of individuals - especially "groups" of people - so that when we make that type of statement, we're actually making what seems like a statement of fact about "those people" or "those types" so we end up type-casting an entire group b/c of what we've assumed about one, or several individuals. Thus, the seeds of bigotry and racism are planted and begin to flourish (an exaggeration in this case, for sure - but I'm trying to make a point as to where assumptions and generalizations can sometimes lead.) I often find myself doing the same - sometimes catch it in time - but usually not - and then realize in retrospect I was assuming all along, and didn't really even KNOW the half of it. Again! I recently did this big-time, right on this forum - then turned around and realized, too late, what I had done. So now I'm back on a kick of trying not to make assumptions about people and situations.
So, I've been trying to train myself (one again) to not assume anything. Does anyone know how impossible it is to abolish assumptions? In reality, it's nearly impossible - or so it seems, to me. The problem being, that if you knew you were assuming in the first place - you'd be alerted to the fact that you are actually creating a story that makes sense to you - "Well, they did this, or neglected to do THAT, so it must be because of this or that reason" - it seems to make sense to us - seems perfectly logical - even though we are taking into consideration possibly one-tenth of possible factors to explain the behavior - so we extrapolate from our little stories what we believe to be fact - and we go around repeating our assumptions as if they are fact. It's always so clear to me, in retrospect, that I've assumed something ONCE AGAIN! I think one might have to exist in a vacuum, or live the life of a monk in order to avoid assuming and generalizing.
Now, what was the original thread, here? I guess I assumed everyone was interested in generalizations with this thread... Oh, o.k., guess it was actually about poor spelling and grammar made by recruiters and schedulers. I assume that either (see? just did it again!), they just don't care, don't know, or are under so much stress to get the jobs filled, they don't have time to spell check or think about grammar and word usage. It does seem pretty ironic, though, huh?
What I find especially ironic - and just went round and round with an msc on this same subject, is the irony of being downgraded for a report, without the benefit of learning specific details for the downgrade. So, here's the thing - you are being asked over and over in your report to supply details on performance, especially with regard to a less than perfect performance - but the editor cannot, for some reason, take the time to provide you with any more than a brief generalization for a downgrade in your own report - , It could be this - or maybe it's that - we're just not going to tell you specifically why... but we DEMAND to know in minute detail exactly why you've downgraded the performance of your shoppee." (yes; a new word I just made up - won't find it in the dictionary!).
Another irony; the scheduler, editor, or some staffer in the msc who is RUDE to the shoppers. Isn't that what the msc wants us shoppers to watch out for - what the associate being evaluated w/b downgraded for? (among other issues) - those associates in the establishments we are shopping who are performing poorly because they are rude! So many ironies in this industry. Keeps life interesting though, I suppose.