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I read the OP before it was deleted. I've also read everything else on the thread and I agree with CoffeeQueen. I've heard 'bless your heart" as very nasty and as kindly. It usually depends on the expression on the face and tone of voice, none of which are visible here. So, who knows - or cares - how she "meant" it. It's time to let it go.

edited because I can't spell and spell checker is not my friend.

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@CoffeeQueen wrote:

For the love of god, people, let it go. Y'all are like a dog with a bone. Welcome to the forum Tara. Like everywhere there are all kinds of people here. Just go with the flow.

Ruff ruff...I happen to have two dogs, and they are nicer to me than some of these folks. Thank you for your welcome, because although I may have been a member for a bit, I've not posted because of the responses I continually see on this board that do not lift people up, but simply tear them down. And, to answer the following post after yours..."She "says" she has been a mystery shopper for over 19 years..." implies I say something and don't mean it. I was mystery shopping when I had my third out of five children. He is now 19...so yes, I can add, and it has been 19 years that I've been mystery shopping, and I've seen a lot of changes in what companies ask for over the last two decades, with one of them being the use or non use of pronouns, etc. That is why I posted what I did - a list of variances among companies which is very difficult to keep up with when conducting 10-20 shops a day for up to 30 different companies. My original post never named anyone on this board, nor did it refer to any specific person or forum member, yet the responses were very personal in nature. Simply no need for it...none at all, regardless if I've been on this board for 10 seconds or 20 years.

And just like dust, I will rise.

@taraklunkler wrote:

And, to answer the following post after yours..."She "says" she has been a mystery shopper for over 19 years..." implies I say something and don't mean it.

Here we go with the assumptions again. You said that you have been a mystery shopper for 19 years. Since we do not personally know you, we have to take what you say at your word. I did not put "says" in quotations so maybe she should take what I write as my word instead of altering it.

I would hope that your two dogs are nice to you. You feed them and take care of them. They should be nice to you. Maybe food is the key.

@Sybil2 wrote:

@CoffeeQueen, did you read the first post in this thread before the OP deleted it? The OP is not new to the forum. She has been a forum member for 2 years and she says that she has been a mystery shopper for 19 years.

No I didn't read it but she already got ripped for it so whatever it was it should be a done deal. She deleted it. I don't care if she's been a member for 2 years. She finally dipped a toe in the water and got it bitten off. Jeez you are a tough audience. What law has she broken? Why keep beating a dead horse? It's not just a dead horse it's a real person behind the words and the screen. It doesn't hurt to give a second or even 3rd chance or to be kind. Try it sometime, it actually feels good.

I was being nice. I told her that her dogs should love her. Woof, woof!

I love how you focus on me when it was a different forum member who "diagnosed" her and said harsher things than I did. But that is how this forum rolls. Oh well. Have a nice night.

@Sybil2 wrote:

I was being nice. I told her that her dogs should love her. Woof, woof!

I love how you focus on me when it was a different forum member who "diagnosed" her and said harsher things than I did. But that is how this forum rolls. Oh well. Have a nice night.

I love how you're suddenly the victim. And thanks, I am having a lovely night. You have one as well.

I'll never tell...
No, but I wish!

@HonnyBrown wrote:

Do you drive the Google car with the funky satellite antenna?

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I've been away from this forum for a very long time and I see not much has changed. Grow up, especially you, Sybil.

Tara, I can so relate. Especially the one about spending time. Those chocolate shops were painful but hilarious in hindsight. OK, I am the only one in a tiny store but yet I need to spend the allotted time. Let me walk around and then around some more;
umpteen times while an associate follows me, lol, lol!

@Canuck wrote:

I've been away from this forum for a very long time and I see not much has changed. Grow up, especially you, Sybil.

Bless your heart!

@Madetoshop wrote:

Tara, I can so relate. Especially the one about spending time. Those chocolate shops were painful but hilarious in hindsight. OK, I am the only one in a tiny store but yet I need to spend the allotted time. Let me walk around and then around some more;
umpteen times while an associate follows me, lol, lol!

This reminds me of the first travel center I shopped. I was supposed to remain for 15-20 minutes. However, it was a tiny location and after I had walked up and down the aisles, the manager came up to me to ask if I needed anything.

Yes, it makes that 15 minutes last like...1 hr, or so it feels.

And just like dust, I will rise.

@Canuck wrote:

I've been away from this forum for a very long time and I see not much has changed. Grow up, especially you, Sybil.

Sybil can't grow up. Nie he/she is accusing me of being a banned shopper. I bet i wasn't even the shopper yet when the said person has been on this forum. Good thing many people notice the middle school mentality of negative people here.

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