As someone who worked in the restaurant industry for over ten years, I can say that it is quite normal and natural for customers to ask the server's name. Lots of people like to know who is waiting on them, or feel like they are buddy-buddy with the staff, so they ask. And knowing the server's name makes it easier to get their attention, ask for something extra, leave a tip for them with someone else, etc. All kinds of scenarios benefit from knowing their names, so I don't think anyone needs to feel awkward or like they are outing themselves as a shopper just for asking. Sheesh, just make it sound friendly and natural, like you want to get to know them.
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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/23/2023 08:40PM by shopnyc.