@lauren75 wrote:
Okie, I would love to speak on the M video game assignments as for me it is a NEVER AGAIN! My daughter did these all the time and they never sold her a game. She has aged out so a month ago, I thought I would try my son. They sold him the M game (which I promptly returned) but he was so nervous that he cried over the thought that his action may have cost the "nice guy" his job. It wasn't worth the fee...
Exactly what wasn't "worth" the fee? Your son's tears? The person losing their job? Was there a fee where you would have been like, "To heck with it is son, we're turning in this report and if he loses his job, he loses his job?"
So, it sounds like you dropped the shop, though the employee did something they were not supposed to do?
Sounds to me like you missed out on an opportunity on teaching your son how to make hard decision.
Sometimes we have to do that in life, even when it means someone will get into trouble. I don't know that the person would have lost their job, but certainly some corrective action needed to take place. It may have prevented them from selling alcohol to a minor on their next job.
There is nothing wrong will feeling bad that someone may get into trouble. It shows they're human. It is touching. Your son sounds very tender-hearted. I think that's great. I always believe there is room for grace, too. But I still believe this would have been a great teachable lesson on making hard decisions and knowing that if you had turned in that report and the person lost their job (not that you would necessarily know), it was not your fault or that of your son.
@Morledzep To clarify, you are okay if people get into trouble, as long as you have not tricked them? Do you not view mystery shopping in general as a trick? When I go to "buy a mattress" for the 100th time, I'm not on the up and up. I know I'm not buying a mattress. I'm there to trick the salesman/woman into thinking I am a legit buyer. Same with buying a car or going through the check-out line in the c-store.