I feel you, been there, and am so sorry. Take care of you and your family.
Those banking and loan assignments are not worth the personal cost, due to the harassment and the credit inquiry dings. You’re the one paying in the end for all that time, gas, follow up, cost of hard credit checks, and …residual cleanup the client and MSC could care less about. This is why I keep scrolling and avoid the increasing bonuses and misleading scheduler sales pitches.
Warning based on experience in a sales job- Google numbers will get your real # reported as a spammer after a certain number of calls and you don’t get all the services (vm, c/b etc) unless you pay, and your # will show as a spam call for at least 6 months.
I set up an additional line/number for free just for this business with my plan provider to keep things manageable.
Setting up a separate email to give the targets works well because you can monitor the MSC communications from your profile email, keep business and personal separate, stay organized, cherry pick the useful replies, and trash/spam the rest.
DO report harassment/spam to the FTC if you have the bandwidth because…they are predators, which is a priority at the FTC.
In addition to what you shared, I can also validate the senior living pests. The “for profit” ones are …dogged in thier thinly veiled sales calls. The non-profits are not so persistent because it’s a different mission.
With Sr. communities I usually chat up the contact/target as I do the discovery call. If they’re good people genuinely interested in Mom’s well being, I’ve been able to reach out personally and just make an excuse. “Out of our price range” works well, as does “decided on another location/death” to end the communication. For those who make the effort and genuinely care, I complement their ethics, offer gratitude, and blame taking the other option on “family consensus” so they don’t burn out and continue to care in real situations.
In the end, we all have to live with ourselves. Remember that Live us what matters most, and remember to be kind to You, and say yes to needed help as well.
Sending you all the good vibes…
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 07/13/2025 11:07PM by SBP.