@claabe wrote:
MONEY MONEY MONEY. There is more to life then chasing it ! You can't take it with you when you die. I'm very skeptical with the "rich" people on this site. Sure, you can do what you want, but you don't have all the answers. You people are not better humans, because of your bank account. There is NEVER any love talk, children or charities talked about. You can't hug your cash ! A nice purchase (car/house/jewelry or whatever) the thrill dies in a couple weeks and then you need more to fill the empty hole. Investments, of course that is a good thing for retirement. A lot people just don't have the money to do it. But, are they still happy in life ? Working hard doesn't always translate to happiness. But, it can, depending on your definition of "happiness". I know (personally) a number of wealthy people. They bounce from relationship to relationship. They have children that are horrible humans (due to terrible parents chasing CASH). Their kids do stupid stuff and they buy their way out ! Their children don't learn anything and grow from mistakes (which is life).
Before I get attacked, I do have some investments and I paid off my house in 2022. But, it doesn't make me who I am, as a person and father. So, as you sit and think you have everything because of money...do you really ?
@BayShopper22 wrote:
Can you explain the areas that I have highlighted? I honestly don't know what you are talking about.
What premiums?
What required insurance?
Cheated out of their retirement investments?
@BayShopper22 wrote:
@SBP wrote:
How lovely that your retirement stayed intact through all that, unlike so many others who did all the right things per your advice, paid all the premiums, and trusted what they were told about retirement planning…only to lose much of all of it.
Our children and grandchildren (and perhaps even some of us here) do/did all the “right things,” and even in the tech and other successful industries, after working crazy overtime and sacrificing thier personal lives, get laid off, cheated out of thier retirement investments, and pay through the nose for required insurance while big corporate reports record profits…and more than half will never know what it is to own their own home.
May your legacy of wise investing leave your children and grandchildren well protected.
Can you explain the areas that I have highlighted? I honestly don't know what you are talking about.
What premiums?
What required insurance?
Cheated out of their retirement investments?
@BayShopper22 wrote:
Can you explain the areas that I have highlighted? I honestly don't know what you are talking about.
What premiums?
What required insurance?
Cheated out of their retirement investments?
@boridi wrote:
@BayShopper22 wrote:
Can you explain the areas that I have highlighted? I honestly don't know what you are talking about.
What premiums?
What required insurance?
Cheated out of their retirement investments?
It sounds like someone was scammed into buying whole life insurance as an investment ("premiums") by a sales advisor who makes a lot of commission on the product. The salesman told them it was the "right thing" to do.
@BayShopper22 wrote:
@boridi wrote:
@BayShopper22 wrote:
Can you explain the areas that I have highlighted? I honestly don't know what you are talking about.
What premiums?
What required insurance?
Cheated out of their retirement investments?
It sounds like someone was scammed into buying whole life insurance as an investment ("premiums") by a sales advisor who makes a lot of commission on the product. The salesman told them it was the "right thing" to do.
It never occurred to me that people were that dumb, but ok. I guess that makes sense.
@maverick1 wrote:
@SBP wrote:
@maverick1 wrote:
Of course, if you work hard in school, work hard in your career, earn, save, and invest, you can retire early like we did.
Then, there is no cost of working. No commuting cost, no work attire cost, and no associated waste of time.
But of course, you have to have something to retire to. It's surprising to me that so many people have no interests. They are better off working and staying busy.
That’s an interesting post, Maverick.
It was also a different world then, Mav, in between the big stock market crash of the last century that had grown men committing suicide (literally) on Wall St, and now.
There have been several more crashes since then in the last 30 years, and just as many bailouts for those who contributed to thier occurrence.
How lovely that your retirement stayed intact through all that, unlike so many others who did all the right things per your advice, paid all the premiums, and trusted what they were told about retirement planning…only to lose much of all of it.
Our children and grandchildren (and perhaps even some of us here) do/did all the “right things,” and even in the tech and other successful industries, after working crazy overtime and sacrificing thier personal lives, get laid off, cheated out of thier retirement investments, and pay through the nose for required insurance while big corporate reports record profits…and more than half will never know what it is to own their own home.
May your legacy of wise investing leave your children and grandchildren well protected.
Look @SBP, we didn't do anything special. Just like I've been posting, a diversified portfolio, years and years of earning, saving, investing and compounding. Just like Warren Buffet, Peter Lynch, John Bogle, and others have noted.
We've lost 15% in 2022. It was a substantial chunk of change. But did we sell when the market was down? Nope. Held on and it came roaring back. On average, our portfolio has increased 10.3% per year.
Nobody who is properly diversified loses like you are inferring. There are "investors", I prefer to call them gamblers, who "invested" in a small group of stocks like Tesla, or Game Stop, or choose the meme stock of the moment. Yep, at times those portfolios went belly up. Same with crypto. It's not a get rich quick method when you are diversified.
Please go read this: [awealthofcommonsense.com]
Go read the blogs of Mr. Money Mustache, Financial Samurai, or any of the following Financial Independence, Early retirement (FIRE) and high-savings blogs
Afford Anything: Paula Pant explores how to make smarter decisions about money, time, and life by examining the trade-offs involved in reaching financial independence.
Frugalwoods: This blog chronicles a couple's journey to extreme frugality and early retirement on a homestead in rural Vermont. It emphasizes mindful spending and achieving a simpler life.
Mad Fientist: Focusing on optimizing the path to financial independence, this blog uses a data-heavy, numbers-driven approach to cover topics like tax optimization, investment strategies, and location independence.
Physician on FIRE: Aimed at high-income professionals, this blog and its resources provide strategies for reaching financial independence and early retirement (FIRE).
JL Collins NH: Best known for the book The Simple Path to Wealth, this blog offers straightforward investing advice, primarily for those interested in using index funds to build wealth.
Early Retirement Extreme: Author Jacob Lund Fisker details a minimalist approach to financial independence by focusing on increasing savings, living simply, and reducing dependence on consumer goods.
Millennial Revolution: This blog follows the story of a couple who retired in their 30s. It offers a fresh, modern take on the FIRE movement, with advice geared toward younger generations.
Broader personal finance blogs
A Wealth of Common Sense: Written by Ben Carlson, a wealth manager, this blog offers market insights and explores investor psychology in a straightforward, easy-to-understand way.
Get Rich Slowly: As one of the original personal finance blogs, it offers extensive content on mastering money through a thoughtful, long-term approach to building wealth.
The White Coat Investor: Similar to Financial Samurai, this site is tailored toward high-income professionals—specifically doctors, dentists, and other high-earners—with advice on managing student debt, saving, and investing.
@Minime wrote:
@maverick1 wrote:
@SBP wrote:
@maverick1 wrote:
Of course, if you work hard in school, work hard in your career, earn, save, and invest, you can retire early like we did.
Then, there is no cost of working. No commuting cost, no work attire cost, and no associated waste of time.
But of course, you have to have something to retire to. It's surprising to me that so many people have no interests. They are better off working and staying busy.
That’s an interesting post, Maverick.
It was also a different world then, Mav, in between the big stock market crash of the last century that had grown men committing suicide (literally) on Wall St, and now.
There have been several more crashes since then in the last 30 years, and just as many bailouts for those who contributed to thier occurrence.
How lovely that your retirement stayed intact through all that, unlike so many others who did all the right things per your advice, paid all the premiums, and trusted what they were told about retirement planning…only to lose much of all of it.
Our children and grandchildren (and perhaps even some of us here) do/did all the “right things,” and even in the tech and other successful industries, after working crazy overtime and sacrificing thier personal lives, get laid off, cheated out of thier retirement investments, and pay through the nose for required insurance while big corporate reports record profits…and more than half will never know what it is to own their own home.
May your legacy of wise investing leave your children and grandchildren well protected.
Look @SBP, we didn't do anything special. Just like I've been posting, a diversified portfolio, years and years of earning, saving, investing and compounding. Just like Warren Buffet, Peter Lynch, John Bogle, and others have noted.
We've lost 15% in 2022. It was a substantial chunk of change. But did we sell when the market was down? Nope. Held on and it came roaring back. On average, our portfolio has increased 10.3% per year.
Nobody who is properly diversified loses like you are inferring. There are "investors", I prefer to call them gamblers, who "invested" in a small group of stocks like Tesla, or Game Stop, or choose the meme stock of the moment. Yep, at times those portfolios went belly up. Same with crypto. It's not a get rich quick method when you are diversified.
Please go read this: [awealthofcommonsense.com]
Go read the blogs of Mr. Money Mustache, Financial Samurai, or any of the following Financial Independence, Early retirement (FIRE) and high-savings blogs
Afford Anything: Paula Pant explores how to make smarter decisions about money, time, and life by examining the trade-offs involved in reaching financial independence.
Frugalwoods: This blog chronicles a couple's journey to extreme frugality and early retirement on a homestead in rural Vermont. It emphasizes mindful spending and achieving a simpler life.
Mad Fientist: Focusing on optimizing the path to financial independence, this blog uses a data-heavy, numbers-driven approach to cover topics like tax optimization, investment strategies, and location independence.
Physician on FIRE: Aimed at high-income professionals, this blog and its resources provide strategies for reaching financial independence and early retirement (FIRE).
JL Collins NH: Best known for the book The Simple Path to Wealth, this blog offers straightforward investing advice, primarily for those interested in using index funds to build wealth.
Early Retirement Extreme: Author Jacob Lund Fisker details a minimalist approach to financial independence by focusing on increasing savings, living simply, and reducing dependence on consumer goods.
Millennial Revolution: This blog follows the story of a couple who retired in their 30s. It offers a fresh, modern take on the FIRE movement, with advice geared toward younger generations.
Broader personal finance blogs
A Wealth of Common Sense: Written by Ben Carlson, a wealth manager, this blog offers market insights and explores investor psychology in a straightforward, easy-to-understand way.
Get Rich Slowly: As one of the original personal finance blogs, it offers extensive content on mastering money through a thoughtful, long-term approach to building wealth.
The White Coat Investor: Similar to Financial Samurai, this site is tailored toward high-income professionals—specifically doctors, dentists, and other high-earners—with advice on managing student debt, saving, and investing.
All of these blogs must have taken a lot of time to read. Time is $. Why not take advantage of bonus offers for new bank accounts? That takes much less time and it’s free. At least you don’t risk anything when there’s a downturn.

@Minime wrote:
The problem with stocks is you have to invest a considerable amount of time to learn the ropes to avoid fees. Then your risks and losses are all your own. If you trust others to invest your money, you have no idea what their motivations are. There’s always a chance that someone will steer you wrong for their own benefit. Somebody is always on the losing end at some point.
When a leader is playing puppet master with the markets the risk is much higher. Your choice is to invest in what they’re peddling or risk losing your shirt. The tariffs will upend any investments in manufacturing companies that rely on trade. That’s why tariffs must be approved and authorized by congress, who would involve actual economists in their decision making, not a bully. That’s not happening, so all of the Trumpsters who think they’re getting ahead due to his leadership are in for a rude awakening. I’m seeing prices in the stores and online up by 20% over last year. What happened to bringing down grocery prices? It will never happen.
CAN WE BACK UP A BIT? WHAT ‘EVENT’ ARE YOU REFERRING TO WHEN I WAS ON A VICTIM MINDSET, BLAMING EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING? ARE WE GOING BACK TO XMAS 1977 WHEN THERE WAS NO 10 SPEED NEXT TO THE TREE? HOW COULD I HAVE TURNED THAT TO MY ADVANTAGE? I’M TRULY INTERESTED IN LISTENING AND LEARNING. (*STILL FUMING ABOUT IT*)@kisekinecro wrote:
@Minime wrote:
The problem with stocks is you have to invest a considerable amount of time to learn the ropes to avoid fees. Then your risks and losses are all your own. If you trust others to invest your money, you have no idea what their motivations are. There’s always a chance that someone will steer you wrong for their own benefit. Somebody is always on the losing end at some point.
When a leader is playing puppet master with the markets the risk is much higher. Your choice is to invest in what they’re peddling or risk losing your shirt. The tariffs will upend any investments in manufacturing companies that rely on trade. That’s why tariffs must be approved and authorized by congress, who would involve actual economists in their decision making, not a bully. That’s not happening, so all of the Trumpsters who think they’re getting ahead due to his leadership are in for a rude awakening. I’m seeing prices in the stores and online up by 20% over last year. What happened to bringing down grocery prices? It will never happen.
Ok, I’m going to have to break this up piecemeal again in order to follow along and digest…
Stock markets goes up and down. TRUE. Plenty of regular folks earn money on it, and at the same time plenty of people lose money over it as well. AGREED. Of course. people who lose money will point finger at the stock market instead of themselves because stock market will never argue back. I WOULD BLAME MYSELF AND NOT SHAKE MY FINGER SAYING ‘BAD STOCK MARKET!’ It is just much easier to blame at. WHERE CAN I FIND THE X SYMBOL ON THE KEYBOARD THAT CAN SUPERIMPOSE? IT WOULD SAVE ME A LOT OF TIME.
Same thing with tariff. Literally every county on Earth put tariff on import from the US, but when US put tariff on imported goods, it becomes a problem? WHEN IT’S A MOVING TARGET THAT CAN REACH 150%? UMM, I WOULD SAY ‘YES’ EXTORTION IS A PROBLEM.
I am very sorry but the inflation comes from mid 2021 during Biden era. OK I WILL KEEP THIS IN MIND FOR FUTURE REFERENCE. Majority of the price increase comes due to the so called "covid money" where the govt keeps on printing money which depreciate the value of the money itself. I AGREE THAT THE PRINTED $ THAT WENT TO THE SELF EMPLOYED BUMS IN THE FORM OF A GRANT FOR A FULL YEAR’S SALARY WAS HIGHWAY ROBBERY. WILL THIS EARN ME EXTRA POINTS FOR SOMETHING?
Loser will always find reasons and things to blame. (‘THE INFLATION COMES FROM MID 2021 DURING BIDEN ERA). BUSTED! (BUT CONFUSION IS SETTING IN.) Winners find opportunities to advance. This statement will forever hold true. It's never about the issue. Its always about the mindset, when an even happens how you look at it and interpret it will determine your action, thus consequences, and you, my friend, is on the victim mindset apparently, decided to just blame everyone and everything, instead of understanding and making use of the event at your advantage.
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