Well, after a decent nights sleep I am still miffed. Flash - I wanted to let you know that the COBRA payments are that high ($1100 month) after he stops working because the insurance is so great to begin with. I've done the checking.
I also hate the sports vs. arts arguement. I was a jock in school and did every sport available. I did not take music, not because it wasn't offered but because my father is a musician and wanted me to learn clarinet. I said I wanted to play drum. He said girls don't play drums. So I tried the clarinet for two weeks. Quit, stopped visiting my dad for about 6 months and decided to compete in volleyball, gymnastics, cross country, basketball, and on the side I danced in folklore groups, did tap, jazz and ballet. So I didn't play music, but I was a dancer.
My husband is so not a jock. He is a musician through and through. He plays sax, tenor preferably. He has taught high school band and orchestra. He has been a strings teacher for fourth graders (ouch) and now has been at the Arts school in town for the last four years. He says he is scheduling a hearing and talking to the union lawer. He has a lot of seniority but doesn't like throwing it around. His school has been having parent requested meetings trying to save his job.
Besides teaching for the district, he does give lessons. My father's Portuguese marching band pays him $150 a month to teach for one hour every week. He is supposed to be getting little recruits for Dad's band. He used to give lessons here at home, but the economy made that stop about a year ago. All the students parents had no money, so my husband picks those kids up and takes them to the lessons that my dad's band sanctions (that way they don't have to pay).
He says if all else fails, he could sub. If he signs up with enough school districts he could work every day. Very decent money, no benefits. He is still in a good mood though. Glad he is - I slept very poorly.
Oh, the kicker is he teaches one town over. My in-laws live there too. Both of my children go to the school near my in-laws house. My oldest (8) was just accepted to go to the gifted and talented school, contingent of course upon my husband's employment within the district. Right now I don't know where to enroll my kids. I suppose I will pretend nothing is happening and enroll them where we had planned, then if things change - squeeze them in here.
Wow I talk too much.