Pani: I hear ya about not making waves, being nice to everyone but you have to be careful with that as well. I was taught manners at a young age that I still utilize with people I interact with. I try to be considerate and empathetic. Some take my kindness as a weakness and it works against me. So the dilemma is, should I change my true nature due to these Aholes or not? A healer in HI once told me I needed to close my heart chakra a little bit. I need directions for that. For me avoiding having to deal w/a lot of different personalities solves some of the problem. They tend to exhaust me.
As it turns out with that Color Code test I ended up being a ‘White.’ Whites are peace loving, non-confronatational, intuitive, introspective and a bit prone to living an ‘ivory tower’ existence. Combine that with my zodiac sign, Aquarius, and Chinese New Year Snake sign, and it’s a triple whammy. I’m set in my ways. Whites aren’t compatible with Reds, who are drawn to leadership, power, control etc. If anyone caught me reading the book that you mentioned would LTAO, b/c it would be so out of character for me to care about that. Fortunately I feel like I have some modicum of power and control in my life and I don’t seek it with others.
There’s a sequel to that book called ‘The Character Code’ that goes deeper into each color and identifies ‘healthy’ and ‘sick’ characteristics for oth. The author used Hillary Clinton as an example of a healthy red, with all of the good qualities. I imagine he would view Ru,p as a sick red, and I couldn’t agree more. It also goes into which colors are compatible with your own. I’m compatible with blues and yellows equally. Yellows tend to be a bit irresponsible because their main motivation is having fun. I can spot them a mile away, just as I can spot the sick reds in MSC, like the Ipshitz management crew.