@Eric in Tampa wrote:
Pfft! The irony of this post is absolutely sickening. You of all people state that rude posts need to be reported when you are its biggest practitioner?
@dspeakes wrote:
The rude posts need to be reported. Jacob doesn't read every thread and the mods can't be everywhere.
He talked Jacob into letting him back in. Probably promised to be nice. Then he continues using profanity and insulting everyone.
This is what I received after posting my original apology and updating my signature line like several members suggested that I do to help others identify me. I wouldn't normally post this but I just want to allow everyone to review all available information including knowing what I as receiving privately was identical to what I was also being yelled at for doing by the same person. This is what I received during my attempt to apologize.
The quotes are the message I received and the non quotes are me. I gave a sincere effort and offer to try and come to amiable terms and it was met with fierce resistance. When it was clear a reasonable conclusion was not what was actually being sought and it was more about some personal feelings I realized that our goals were not the same and lost interest.
@jrossetti wrote:
"Your arrogance is bleeding all over the place, Joe, including in your bragging signature line. Who cares how many shops you've done and what difference does it make? No, it doesn't give you more credibility. There are others here who have been here longer and done more shops and they learn things from us "lesser mortals." And you won't see their statistics at the bottom of every post they make."
I'm proud. There are plenty of people who track their stats and it isn't for bragging rights beyond the accomplishment that it is. It isn't meant to minimize anyone or make anyone worship the ground I walk. It's simply because I'm proud. Sometimes' an apple's just an apple man.
"And you probably feel somehow vindicated because Jacob let you back in even though I'm sure I wasn't the only one reporting your rude and profanity-laden posts, and who breathed a huge sign of relief when he finally pulled the plug on you. And who groaned in dismay when he let you back in."
Nope, not at all. What I did was out of line. I really don't care who did or did not breath a huge sigh of relief. If you hated me or didn't want to interact with me you can simply toggle me, or don't reply to me. Instead you took the route of confrontation. I'm going to leave that at that because I'm sincerely trying to not be a dick to anyone.
"Your apology was the kind of apology a child makes when ordered to by his mother. "Go tell your brother you're sorry." "Okay, I'm sorry (but you started it)." There was no sincerity in it at all. You still think you were right and everyone you lit into was wrong. "I'm sorry I stuck my tongue out at you but I still think you're a poopy-head" is not an apology."
No one ordered it at all. In your opinion you feel it wasn't sincere. I'm telling you that you're wrong and you can either believe me or not. Yes, I do feel that the people I was yelling at were wrong, simply because they were talking about my personal companies assignments. I think I am entitled to be a know it all when I am literally the person who's job they were discussing. That's not arrogance, its my friggen company. What was wrong was how I handled it. There was no reason for me to act how I did when trying to resolve that. There were certainly better ways.
"And when someone describes a problem and someone suggests trying a solution you don't need to jump in there and shoot down the idea before it can be tried. I was talking to Iblessyah, whom I know, whom I have met personally, and whose disabilities are known to me. And whose need to shop and be productive is something I understand because she told me about her life and why she shops, something that is not widely known in the forum. She's thinking of giving up video because she doesn't think she can do it from her scooter. Even though we share turf and she has taken shops from me in the past I wanted to help her so I suggested she try other camera positions TO SEE IF THEY MIGHT WORK FOR HER. Maybe they will, maybe they won't. But without knowing a damn thing about her, you jump in and shoot it down. Did you really think we didn't both know that the chest shot is generally the most stable? We went through the same video certification class together. Her situation is that the chest shot doesn't work for her."
The first time I don't quote who I was replying to and of course someone goes all crazy. I replied having read the message regarding the not using headgear because of too much movement. I hadn't even known there was discussion about a shopper with a disability. You'll note that as soon as you replied telling me what the issue was I went and sought out some answers and posted what I found.
Who's credible now? The one who offered a helpful suggestion, knowing the limitations of the other shopper? Or the knowitall who decided to give an impromptu lecture about cameras positioning to two people who he ASSumed were ignorant of the process?
"Don't bother replying. Actions speak louder than words. If you're sorry, ACT IT. Stop defending what you did and continue to do because there is no defense for it."
You know you're going to read this =) Lol. Curiosity killed the cat. (take that as the lighthearted joke it's intended as)
"I took this private for a reason. I'm letting you have the last word in that thread. Let's leave it at that.
Taking it private doesn't make it any better. You literally just did to me what I did to other people publicly and you're yelling at me for it. In this particular case however, your rant was kicked off by a complete misunderstanding and distrust.
Hope this clears things up.
/cheers
Below is the response justifying why it was okay when it was done to me.
"I took it private to keep it out of the forum. If you had taken it private with the people you were upset with we wouldn't be having this conversation now. "
I am sincere in my apology and I have made several attempts at clearing things up publicly and clearly. I have nothing more to add because all information is available publicly for anyone and everyone can form their own conclusions. I again apologize for my role. Thanks =)
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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/12/2015 05:02AM by jrossetti.