Yes, should is a lovely dream for many. Unfortunately, both conditions cannot exist for many victims. This is why victims can learn that their personal recovery processes can and should be separate from, independent of, and more important than whatever becomes of perps. Perps are responsible for themselves. Victims are not responsible for their perps. Victims are responsible for themselves.
Can't get a trial because the perp has diplomatic immunity, has died, is in hiding, has made a deal for other crimes, used a different identity with you, or some other pesky damned annoyance? Do the work anyway. This is the most important thing for victims to do. Victims, themselves, matter. Nothing, not even revenge, justice, public humiliation, or personal confrontation should be made more important than the selves of victims. If Irene is right and karma is real and what goes around comes around, then life, the universe, or someone will deal with the perps anyway. The exceptions might be victims who reside with perps, are stalked by them, or other situations in which the are not yet separate from their perps. Those are conditions that are for defined specialists. Many victims can find their way, away from their perps.
Dr. Christine Blasey-Ford, self-described possible victim, has not found her way and she has not identified a perp. She has only engaged in public humiliation based upon nothing that could be related to a crime but could be related to a political agenda. Healed persons also do not need to drive politics and agendas to such an extreme extent.
Bach is not noise, Madam. (Robert, in Two's Company)
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/03/2018 01:23AM by Shop-et-al.
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