I do not believe I need to re-read anything because what is happening here, in my opinion, is very clear. However, I did just re-read what you and dwater posted out of fairness. My opinions have not changed.
WHAT was said was at least as important as WHEN it was said. HOW it was said was important, too.
1. You said, approximately two months ago, that you were owed "only one small, left-over invoice that is not yet due."
2. dwater said, days ago, that dwater thought you said you "had been almost paid in full."
3. You are now saying that Freeman still has not paid that smaller invoice.
Conclusion: There is no conflict in WHAT was said regarding the status of payment between Freeman and PrivateEyes. The WHEN is actually not an issue. Yes, you had to wait to find out whether Freeman would pay you in a timely fashion, so you did not provide an update until recently. However, the fact that it turned out Freeman is treating you like it treats so many shoppers does not change the WHAT, i.e. Freeman still owes you on one small invoice and therefore you have been almost paid in full. Arguing that what dwater said was completely different than what you said and are saying hurts your credibility.
On the other hand, you accused dwater of misquoting you. In fact, dwater never quoted you. So, your accusation (WHAT) was false. WHEN and HOW don't even play a role here.
The bottom line, as I see it, is you do/did not care for the tone (HOW) of dwater's posts.
You wrote, "dwater's question asking, 'Which is it????' clearly implied that they wanted it to seem as if I was giving two different answers when I was not."
I am not dwater and do not know what, if anything, dwater was implying by that question and the multiple question marks. In my opinion, your conclusion of what dwater was implying is reasonable and you have every right to be upset and to defend yourself. However, also in my opinion only, that does not give you the right to accuse dwater of misquoting you.
You have still not acknowledged that you misspoke when you accused dwater of misquoting you, and that hurts your credibility.
PrivateEyes Wrote:
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> I think if you re-read what and how it occured, it
> might become clear
> This is not so much a matter of what was said, but
> when.
> When I said we had one outstanding invoice, and
> then two months later said we never received it,
> dwater said "I thought in an earlier post on
> volition you said you had been almost paid in
> full???? So which is it?"
> A. There we two months in between, so obviously
> there would have to be an update since July.
> B. dwater asked, "So which is it?", as to imply
> I'd given two differnt answers.
> Bottom line is that we had one last (smaller)
> invoice that was not paid. And, I needed time to
> pass before fairly reporting that it was not
> received. We did not receive it, so I said so.
> This should not be confusing. It was made clear to
> the forum.
> dwater's question asking, "Which is it????"
> clearly implied that they wanted it to seem as if
> I was giving two different answers when I was not.
>
>
> BusyBeeBuzzBuzzBuzz Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > PrivateEyes Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > *Private Eyes never said that we were almost
> > paid
> > > in full, and did state in July that we still
> > had
> > > an unpaid invoice out from the Freeman Group*
> > > dwater~
> > > It is not helpful to anyone to misquote
> others.
> > I
> > > never said that I, "had been almost paid in
> > > full????" What I did say was, "We cannot yet
> > know
> > > if we too will fall victim to The Freeman
> > Group's
> > > non or late payment tactics, as we have only
> > one
> > > small, left-over invoice that is not yet due."
>
> > > Not only is this completely different than
> how
> > you
> > > quoted me, but it was posted on July 29th,
> > which
> > > was almost two months ago (just enough time
> to
> > see
> > > that they did not remit payment to us for
> their
> > > last invoice).
> >
> > dwater did not QUOTE or misQUOTE PrivateEyes:
> >
> > dwater Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > I thought in an earlier post on volition you
> > said
> > > you had been almost paid in full????
> > >
> > > So which is it?
> >
> > dwater said dwater THOUGHT PrivateEyes said it
> > "had been almost paid in full." I am quoting
> what
> > dwater posted. dwater did not quote
> PrivateEyes.
> >
> > According to PrivateEyes, what it said was it
> had
> > "only one small, left-over invoice that is not
> yet
> > due." Here, PrivateEyes was quoting itself.
> >
> > Additionally, how was dwater's belief that
> > PrivateEyes "had been almost paid in full"
> > COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than PrivateEyes saying it
> > had "only one small, left-over invoice that is
> not
> > yet due?" To me, the two statements were quite
> > similar, though not exactly the same.
> >
> > I can understand why PrivateEyes is upset but
> it
> > loses credibility, at least in my eyes, when it
> > accuses dwater of misquoting when dwater never
> > quoted anything in the first place, and when it
> > claims two similar statements are "completely
> > different."
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/17/2012 07:33PM by BusyBeeBuzzBuzzBuzz.