As a mostly self-employed (sometimes self employed full time, sometimes working an hourly part-time job when my businesses are slow, and sometimes self-employed part time by choice) individual, I'm insulted by the notion that a stay-at-home mom can or should work for paltry wages because she's home anyway or can "afford" to work for less. Or that because she has a computer and other technology anyway, those expenses don't count. (I'm not saying that anyone here has explicitly said those things, but it's apparently a common feeling.)
I was a full-time marketing communications consultant and part-time Realtor for years, and when my first son was born, I gave up my office space and worked from home. Although I "worked from home," I still had expenses and I didn't reduce my billing rate because those went down. And I still had child-care expenses, because, depending on how old one's child/children are, you can't work and tend to kids at the same time--unless you totally control your own time and can work only when they nap and before/after they go to bed. Which I also did when I was up against a crushing load of work or a tight deadline. The particular IC job in question doesn't sound as if it has that kind of flexibility. They are wanting a helluva lot for what they want to pay.
I find that I have to make
at least 33% more, not less, in order to make what I would make as an employee and break even. That 33% figure is old, as I haven't done the math lately, so it's probably more like 45% or 50% now.
I've also had part-time jobs that paid benefits (pro-rated sick days, vacation pay, holiday pay, etc.), so the argument that working part time at home without benefits isn't much different than working part time as an employee without benefits (other than the SE tax) doesn't wash, either.
Everybody has to find a situation that works for them. But I hate to see anyone, male or female, parent or not, devaluing themselves and the work they do because they "can do it from home" or because they "have a computer and free time anyway."
OK, rant over. Sorry for the lengthy post. (Edited several times due to my obsessive need to make sure I don't have typos in my posts....)
I learn something new every day, but not everyday!
I've learned to never trust spell-check or my phone's auto-fill feature.
Edited 4 time(s). Last edit at 03/24/2016 12:47PM by BirdyC.