AustinMom Wrote:
>
> But what if the "shame" turns out that the poster
> is wrong? Or that the poster's perception of "a
> nasty e-mail" is different from the perception of
> most of our forum members? Without seeing the
> e-mail, and without the scheduler being here to
> put in her 2 cents worth, how do we know whether
> or not an e-mail was "nasty?" Or, whether the
> poster is right or wrong, should the MSC be
> allowed to post also and post the name of the
> shopper? If the scheduler is truly vindictive and
> reads her name here, perhaps she will come back
> and post a copy of the e-mail and name the shopper
> by name and location, here on an open internet
> forum. How do we feel about that? Most shoppers
> prefer to be anonymous, but many MSC employees can
> and do go back to their database and identify the
> shopper. After identifying a MSC employee, a
> poster needs to be ready to be named herself
Austin,
I often wonder from your many posts what your connections to MSC's are.But I dont care whether there are or aren't.
Yes, I agree. Everything is perception. Some people are easily offended, like myself. Some have skins as thick as rhinos and wouldn't know when they are being
disrespected or disrespecting others in their posts.
I assume if the OP found she was wrong she would correct her post and offer a written online apology. I save every e-mail I send...years of sent emails. Although I don't think the OP has to prove anything to us, she might have the email she received and post it. But I doubt she will be back here, after the treatment she received.
I would also assume if the Scheduler who has been reading this thread felt she was being mischaracterized, she would state so, or if not, she would apologize to the OP on this thread that her email was misunderstood.
But its not up to any of us to call the OP vindictive or a liar.
There are three sides to every story to keep in mind. OP's side, Scheduler's side, and the truth of the matter. It's all in perception. And many of the posts on this thread by long time posters, I perceive as unnecessarily harsh.....
If the harsh posters' purpose is to chase potential members away, I have to say
they've been pretty successful - every time a new person appears here with a complaint, they are attacked "look at the OP , they only have 2 posts here" and so on. The last one was a man who had been a shopper for 8 years, who was assumed to be a newbie just because it was his first post over here. You all had a rousting good time attacking and insulting him. You haven't seen him back since have you ?
You and others are not doing Jacob and this wonderful Forum any favors by attacking people who complain by challenging the validity of their complaints. But you are doing big favors for all errant MSC's.
Many posters post about wonderful MSC's. How is it that they're not insulted and challenged to the same extent by you and others? Is it a matter of territorial ownership? "I was here first so I'll put you down and chase you off" ?
It's great that there are oldtimers posting when they help newbies. It's not so great when they attack and challenge any and every newbie complaint.