@Irene,
I did
not "stick up" for what he said, other than to say that in the one specific situation, I agreed with his frustration. He didn't call Kate, personally, rude. She wasn't even working for Merc, by her own account, at the time he posted. His direct response to her was polite and professional. I don't think Jimmy ever said that how they do things is "wrong," but he doesn't like it. Is there a problem with someone not liking how a particular company does some things? I'm willing to bet that all of us work for companies that we like overall, but don't like 100% of everything they do. Do the companies you work for do
everything the way you like? Do you ever vent about things they do that you don't like?
Everybody has the right to his or her own opinion, and everybody else has the right to disagree with that opinion. Don't you think? I understand how/why people were upset at the original thread title. But I think your language sounded angry, abrupt, and at times nasty--even after he admitted his mistake and changed it. You love Merc, you're happy with them, and you're fine with how they do things. That's wonderful; it really is. It's not often that people here are totally satisfied with a particular MSC. But you sounded as if you were taking it personally. Not your usual mellow self.
Spicy also said that this practice was rude, but I didn't see people jumping all over him.
I thought we're supposed to have a free exchange of ideas and share our experiences here, including our feelings about those experiences. Sometimes we put things poorly, but never fear. The person who did so will be advised of that in short order. And hopefully, we
all learn better diplomacy. I don't always put things the way I'd like, or something comes out not the way I intended. I try to avoid doing that, but am not always successful. If there is anyone here who always puts things perfectly, well, that's all good, too.
I learn something new every day, but not everyday!
I've learned to never trust spell-check or my phone's auto-fill feature.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 02/07/2018 03:50PM by BirdyC.